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Thinking about becoming trans
| A weirdo
| I really crave intamacy honestly and a lot of men dont get that compared to women
| just kinda tired of the double standered bullshit
| i want to be very clear amd civil: you dont "become" trans, you either are or arent. how much you wish to change or transition from your current self is entirely up to you but transness is not a lightswitch, and if you arent prepared amd okay with the massive shift in your life and interpersonal dynamics my advice is to continue to discover yourself amd find out what you need to live and thrive.
| you are not going to suddenly become a pretty nymphet and that also wont guarantee any kind of intimacy--in my experience i have had a MASSIVE dropoff in intimate relations (performing cus maleness i was going home with 1-2 different women a week). and the "affection" you do receive you will always have to vet for nefarious intent, chasers, actual predators, etc
much like cis women also have to
my advice? find some close friends who are okay with long hugs, or random play at bars
| cis maleness*
| is this where I mention vrchat?
| yes this is where you mention vrchat
| >>954329
>Mabey too sweet for a man many people found it weird and i kinda agree.
You don't need to be a girl to be sweet. Don't try to fulfill other people ideas of who you should be, unless you want to spend a lifetime of chasing affirmation from others. Be yourself first, and people who don't like it aren't worth your time. "Surround yourself with people of good quality, for it is better to be alone than in bad company."
| truue
| give the onlookers a show of what being yourself really means, and maybe you'll inspire those who are trying to hide from social "norms" to come out too
its weird to be "normal" anyway, so lets make it normal to be weird!
| >>954386 i agree. You should go up to every cis person you meet and convince them they're actually trans. But if cis try that to us then you should punch them.
| dont do it please. we need more men in the world. just read the bible or something.
| I agree with >>954336 it's not something you decide it's something you realize about yourself
Google and read the dysphoria bible if you're seriously questioning
And if none of that hits a chord with you maybe you're not trans but you could still be NB or gender fluid or something it's really up to you to figure out who you are but it's definitely not something you can just choose to be or not...
I definitely wouldn't have chosen to be, it's scary AF in the US right now lol
| wanting to be cute but feeling disgusting was how I felt before I realized I was trans. I decided to transition because I saw femboys being cute and male, and I realized if I did that I'd feel gross for the rest of my life. so now I'm cute and a girl! I recommend it!
| >>954471
>I'm cute and a girl!
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but you're not cute and you're still a guy.
| How is me telling you that you are a guy bait when you literally are.
| if you want affection and support that badly then just get a hobby and make friends. or get a job and become friends with your coworkers. You arent wrong that men get less support than women but I have no fucking clue how "I must become a girl" is the conclusion you came to. Well I do. It's because you've been brainwashed by the media and places like this into thinking that it's the answer. trust me bro it isnt. don't be stupid.
| >>954478
I don't want affection and support, I want to stop looking in the mirror and thinking "ew, a man." I've had dreams about being a girl on the reg since I was about ten. The first time I had sex I had to stop when he touched my dick so I didn't throw up. I've been depressed for two years and none of the meds they gave me worked, but estrogen made it stop within a week.
But yeah you're probably right, let me change back to a man because some rando baiting on /u/ said to rq
| plus I'm on this website so I must be a cute girl. those are the rules.
| >>954478
>It's because you've been brainwashed by the media and places like this into thinking that it's the answer.
No g/u/rl, it's them thar 5G towers with the gay rays! I heard China built them g/u/rl, shield your kids!!!1!1
| >>954483 you just stole from the reddit thread "how do i convince my therapist in trans" then posted it here
| >>954483
the damage has already been done. You haven't even realized that this is something that's been done to you. That's sad.
>>954480
I'm just looking out for op. This trans shit is getting out of hand. Like do you not realize how scary it is how people are openly brainwashing and manipulating vulnerable teenagers and young adults into thinking "be a girl everyone is gonna love you and you'll be so cute" is? A man is a man man and thats how its always going to be.
| Op believes that if he "becomes" a woman he will recieve the attention and support that he deserves as a human being. However that is simply not true and for one simple reason. You cannot change your gender. no matter how hard you try to look femini e and act feminine you will always look like and be a man and for pretty much all men that decide to transition, they end up looking and feeling worse than they have before.
| >>954532 I'm doing well actually, having a giggle at your expense
it's funny to see someone spout exactly what the stereotype of a stupid transphobe is, like im just picturing you lookin like Alex Jones slamming your hands into the desk, face as red as a tomato because trans people dare to... exist... it's hilarious
Try not to break your keyboard btw I wanna see you reeeee some more
| >>954542
You are such a fool. You will realize this eventually. I don't know why or how you got the idea that I'm mad at trannies. I only feel bad for them. What I speak is the truth and you only turn your head away from it. but I guess that's to be expected since as a tranny you've already turned your head away from yourself.
| >>954545 thanks for feeling bad for us! I really think you're helping. you can help us more by killing yourself and never posting again
| you should do it. i spent the last 4 days cuddling a fellow transfem and it was pretty poggers.
| >>954642 btw the most common one linked by you people has a flaw where they basically just ask if they ever wanted to commit or ever tried including before realizing they were trans or before they transitioned
Turns out having people tell you you're just brainwashed and shouldn't exist makes people depressed
I've got a few friends who have said they were going to transition or kill themselves by x year and they're still here so it actually saves lives
| Did I hit the wrong post id oh well
| >>954646 I've got friends who attempted before transition, after transition and even after detransition.
The bottom line is that this demographic is in a very sensitive spot mentally. Just because you're trans you shouldn't kill yourself obviously, I've talked trans friends down before. I just found it ironic you telling that other annoying one to kill himself
| >>954648 well yeah having a whole bunch of people refuse to treat you with basic common decency and tell you you're just brainwashed, possessed, a Satan worshiper, or that our own experience is actually wrong, etc isn't good for mental health and neither is the dysphoria pre transition
| i genuinely dont understand how middle aged white vis men that watch fox news find and end up on this board but qt this point i just want the maids to lock the thread, nothing else needs to be said
| >>954545 as for you I know you're mad because of your writing style
Also because you've been replying to me the whole time I've only been making fun of you, I've given you no argument to respond to, you're happy to just scream into the void about how you hate trans people
Someone who's in control of their emotions wouldn't be doing the things you're doing ;)
| >>954650 honestly it could have been locked when he first commented, it was obviously going to go this way and op already had answers I think are good
Though I do enjoy playing with the emotionally unstable fox fanatic lol
| >>954545 sorry for telling you to kill yourself. that was mean of me. I do think you should stop posting though, and that it's weird you think you're being helpful by trying to gaslight me.
i know a lot of trans girls who said the same type of shit that you say before they came out. if you ever stop sucking the dick of the ruling class and come out as trans come hmu i'll do your makeup.
| >i just want the maids to lock the thread
We had issues a year or two ago where a couple g/u/rls derailed random threads and made them about hating on XYZ people. The maids see that's starting to happen again, so we'll be deleting any derailing replies, locking threads that get derailed, and requiring that discussions on these topics be posted in /new/. Review the /new/ rules, including the requirement for sources when making any claims.
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| I wanna become trans because i could get more emotional support and not become a burden to everyone. I wont be so weird of being a male.
But at the same time. You will have boobas (they have weight according to a Shylily) and i will have creepy men looking at me.
Back in 2021 I used to be a sweet person. Mabey too sweet for a man many people found it weird and i kinda agree. its only cool if a women does it. Thats why i wanna be female. so i can make people happy without being