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Person is offline for month
| i used to go offline for a month and no one seemed to mind. that was pre-covid when i had money and used to travel abroad.
| /d/loli come back please
| I mean I think thats just sort of the nature of online friendships. the best you can do is more on and hope their fine. Unless you have some sort of context that tells you otherwise.
| >>942151 i really wish her nice things like these
>>942164 she was just like me recent 6 years, online regularly.. but now just dissepeared.. i'm worrying that it's my mistake.. i honestly really wanted to meet with her once.. but i was studying on high school and i had no confidence to meet with her or tell about her to parents.. i still don't since i'm on uni probably.. but may i will have economic independence soon.. i feel as trash tbh..
| i told you in the last thread
she changed all her accounts because you stalked her
stop being delusional you fucking retard
| >>942185 i was ignoring her over 2-3 years.. she was still nice to me over that she had no reason why..
| Creeps like you are one of the reasons people abandon their online platforms. For this person to go this extra mile instead of just ghosting, she's fucking terrified of you. Give it up and get a life
| yeah, i don't know what's going on here but it's better for you to let go. take care of your health, op.
| My health was going little worse probably because of stress from some other things too so maybe late xd but.. i just can't forget her.. she always helped me when i needed it.. no one was nice to me like this before.. she deserves same things.. in past she tried commit suicide.. it's what makes me worried the most.. but instead i just ghosted her because i had no confidence..
| stop that
| she moved on
| ...
| (not in a spiritual sense)
| >>942548 yes, but i'm worrying that something bad happened to her.. honestly, i don't want anything from her.. if she hated me, it's what i deserve.. just i wish to know that she is all right.. but she stopped to use all her online accounts, and messages won't deliver.. and it's not just me.. her phone is probably shutdown.. or theoretically can abandoned these accounts which would be fine.. but no one know anything about her probably..
| Just when i think about it.. people commonly just don't abandon accounts commonly.. i honestly can't remember anyone who just got offline.. 2 weeks ago, when i was thinking about it intesively for few hours i did fall while i was walking and wake up in neurology ambulance.. and than in few hours again.. i guess that it's psychosomatic.. i feel brainfucked and obsessed.. i even thought if she is dead and if afterlife exists, she must probably see how pathetic and trash i'm..
| even me who don't believe in any kind of religion.. i was few times doubting.. my closure is just that probably bad "random events happens", and my mentality can't handle it.. I try to not think about it.. And also try follow few healthy habits as enough sleep, not using pc and breath deeply when my eyes suddenly twitching, feel diziness or any way physically uncomfortable and going to lay.. i have really strong sense for self-preservation..
| My psychic is probably less effective, i really try to think logically what probably happened to her.. i feel scared that is dead.. somehow i try to believe that she is enjoying her life offline, or if it's bad.. than maybe just temporarely and will be fine? I suppose that time will let know.. but my fear is having bad patience.. It's may reason why i vent my emotions and thoughts on anonymous board on lost corners of internet..
| She's not dead, just avoiding you
| Personally one day I've decided to go offline and stop interacting with any social or game platform with features that promote getting in a community.
I just stopped caring as my personal life taskes were starting to pill over too much and I had decided to just stop and do what I needed to keep progressing in my life. I'm sorry for not leaving any message at all to my virtual friends and it makes me even worse now by the fact that you've shared the other prospective.
| It sucks to hear that some of them may've been left worrying on me for months.
| years ago i was the type of emotional bitch to go offline for WEEKS but lurk whenever i could just to see if people cared or some shit.
| >>942586 I really doubt..
>>942890 >>942891 It would be ok if it was like this.. But you don't have to feel worse i think, if they are really friends, they will understand ^^
>>942900 She have almost all my attention so it works i guess xd I really wish she would be like this.. But i'm worrying.. it's over 5 weeks now
| In the ward or wants a fresh start and cut yo broke ass
| I found few people asking about her name and adress.. i know her name but i will prefer to keep it in secret for now.. i will going to respect her privacy.. but i'm thinking.. should i let one from these people let know? He said that he can going to look for her.. but somehow i feel.. what if is alive and she dissepeared purposely? Than it would be probably toxic and doxxing from me.. which is bad..
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(｡´・ω・｀｡)Maybe I should send 601 emails next time..
| you dummy, she's waiting for you to be offline for 2 months, then she'll meet you irl!
| Woah nigga he
| >>943516 you aren't me
>>943522 we are around 2x
>>943524 she is having discord where a lot people worry about her too.. around 50-100 people..
>>943533 we shared our names and cities but not direct adresses.. i got this suggestion in past but i was scared to meet.. she is coming from neighbor country
>>943547 both of us are having maybe little controversial opinions about black people
| I'm about going to send her e-mail.. and than wait probably for month-10.. if nothing will change.. i will maybe contact one person which seems that is close to her and give him surname.. but i have moral problem with it.. i really want respect her privacy.. honestly i never thought that morality which i thought that i miss and i was thinking that i'm able to do anything will stop me in something as this..
| fr tho this g/u/rl a denko ass nigga lmao he gonna get hit with that restraining order bros
| bro is so retarded.
| i really thought this thread wouldn't last. but nah.
maybe, and hopefully, just maybe it's the slight engrish making this sound worse than it actually is. i don't know...
| A bit surprised I even sticked around, hit to close to home. I've been on the receiving end of a similar situation, I removed myself online because of one fucking obsessed stalker
Life's not anime OP, don't ever doxx her, and kill yourself
| This ain't gonna end well OP, please. You don't want to be featured in some youtuber series about stalker right? BTW hi YT in 2 year
| >>943551 i don't understand you
>>943556 it sometimes happens.. maybe..
>>943560 i don't know accurately where she live, just her lastname. But because of language barrier i can't find data about her identity online. I was thinking about may provide lastname to one person what was spend a lot time with her. But only after really long time if it will seems that is dead and single person what seems closest to her. I have moral problem with reveal her surname.
| >>943560 she didn't remove any of her platforms, didn't set them private or anything.. just is suddenly offline and on few of them is app saying that her phone is offline.. let's hope because of digital detox or other simple thing.. or worse.. because of phone what is out of battery and bad event.. i just worry about her because i was ignoring her and usually writing her only once per 3 months.. if it was anime, i feel it's orange.. i won't provide her surname everyone and i won't
| >>943560 kill myself..
>>943564 we are not famous, and both of us are relatively care about our online privacy.. also you probably don't know how /u/ works.. i suppose that only random g/u/rl can start this kind of series.. i honestly want just know if she is alive.. or not.. she is/was nicest person who i ever found.. and i feel scared from imagine if anything bad happened her.. if she committed suicide, i feel that it's my fault..
| We are knowing each other since 2015/2016.. and if i forget last 2.5 years.. we was talking almost always.. i did decide to isolate myself from almost all people because of stress (Bad reason i know).. but after my unexpected hospitalisation i started to thinking about other people.. and paradoxically i worry about her more than about my health.. i believe that this year and mostly begin of 2024 will solve most of sources of my stress.. i have real plans what i work on, not
| o nahhhh.
inb4 "How Danger/u/ fostered a stalker" or some shit.
| Procrastination.. i see future in generally optimistically.. but someone's sudden dissepearance makes me scared.. we wished new year each other.. and than 2 weeks later she wasn't available anywhere.. i did noticed that she posted few depressing posts in January shortly before dissepearance..
>>943717 maybe xd after could be 2nd chapter "Danger/u/ interview with victim"
| If she want you to know she would, But she didn't, Is't she? All you doing here is just trying to justify your selfish curiosity from random anon. If she have another closer people to her that know more about her than you, then you don't really have the right to know what happen to her. Just don't fucking doxxed her dumbass. Also look up her last name in an obituary website or something.
| >>943732 She didn't let know anyone she just left internet suddenly. i realise that it's selfish to know. There is 6 people what said that are worrying about her.. and once of them said that if would someone know her surname/adress that can look for her.. we was sharing a lot of things from our lifes.. it's happened her really a lot bad things.. at time when we stopped talk she was also starting having fun by some people.. i somehow didn't want to bother her by my pesimism..
| >>943732 i don't clearly know how are looking her close people.. i believe that parents would worry about her.. but i believe that is offensive tag her as random anon. In country where she lives aren't any kind of online registers, everything is there offline in region offices. But i'm 300-400 km from her.. also i still try believe that is all right, because i can get sometimes anxious and overreacting.. but i have daily nightmares now.. and remember a lot things..
| One person said what was in touch with her recently was saying that she said that wasn't feel well..
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| On all platforms.. i'm scared about her.. i'm worrying that something bad happened her.. but i'm thinking if there aren't statistics chances that is fine, but busy or anything..
Do you have similar experience? Or you was offline over month on most of your used platforms as Steam, Discord, Spotify, Youtube, WordPress etc.?
I tried to contact her.. but no answer.. also i can't find any online report or so..
I would be happy for your objective thinking about situation...