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how do I go outside
| >>901838 good start can be visiting places what you like... cinema, fast food? If with someone.. than with single friend? Maybe go to concert of your favourite group?
These are probably my highest social success.. but otherwise i'm terrible hikki.. i'm on uni, and i don't even know name of my classmates.. if you was invited, i think that it's good oportunity..
| Individualism is secure place if you don't feel safe, and you have fear or hate people.. But after awhile you will notice that a lot things and people changed, time passed, and you feel that you didn't move.. Than you will realise that you are living in past.. And than is really difficult to get back touch with reality.. i somehow hate how i live, i'm keep waiting for one change.. i feel little abused.. i don't want people know about how i live.. i feel that change is close..
| but i'm little thinking.. what after.. i'm thinking about to contact few people from past what i cutted contact with.. but somehow i feel that my mentality is stuck is close to end of 2017.. i will probably try to do things what i wished to.. i will probably also change my appearance.. maybe dye hairs? But somehow i realize that i will probably forever keep rage what can't be revenged, and miss time what can't be replaced..
| Also i feel that society changed in general.. I remember that this time was little apolitical, people wasn't demonstrating so often.. But now, anytime i must go outside.. i must find informations about corona, if i need mask or not.. where i have to wear it.. people are now easily getting in conflict because of corona/ukraine-russia/nato topic etc. Now people legitimally dare to talk to you if you don't wear mask if is supposed to wear in public transport..
| Try sex
| (Also, please don't categorize to kind of people as Trump, i suppose that Corona is real and is dangerous) but i feel that people are polarized little.. now are here people what are strongly again something, or are strongly supporting for.. Now people support ukraine or russia.. but also are becoming russophobic.. like really?
...but this is probably far from topic xd
| But i feel that i want get in touch with people what are having similar mind as me.. maybe gits, lain or mirai nikki fandom idk xd
| >>901838 if you're not interested in the thing you're doing, then you can be interested in the people you're doing it with. the better you know them the easier it will be
| Why Small talk Sucks
https://www.youtube.com
/watch?v=_ZrRpL2s3t8&t=723s
| It take practice and observation. Some extrovert friend taught me tricks like things to say or places to look on peoples face. It becomes like a game in that sense. When I get people to laugh or enjoy my convo, in my head I'm thinking "You sucker. I have no idea what I'm saying"
| >>901974 small talk sucks when you want to get things done. but if you want to know new people it's kinda the only way. sometimes I want my friends to have nothing to do with my job or business exchange. and sadly, no one irl is making friends by getting caught up in a zombie apocalypse or stranded in an island together. that'd be too fun (and sexy).
| My bad I didn't watch the video before commenting. It's pretty alright, but the visuals are genuinely distracting for me.
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| legit question. I was recently invited to an outing with the friends of a friend. I couldn't go in the end (for other reasons) but I just can't imagine being there. by looking at my more outgoing friends it seem that outgoing people have this ability to humor ANY conversation, like the skill to SHOW INTEREST in anything. that's too high level for me. how do I learn?