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Please help me :(
| Your feelings are 100% valid and appropriate to the situation. Just remember, we as people don't hold some accountability to life like just because we exist, we must succeed. Just living is enough. Society creats illusions of expectations and how we must be to live full and feel happy, but it's really not for everyone and people that feel like they're failing are not alone, there are so many of us.
| You are not the problem, that might be depression talking. Try to remember that you are *not* your thoughts. I wrapped up a 1 year very intense nursing program in June and I’m still trying to shake off the lingering fugue state. I’m also 36 and I’ve needed my parents’ financial support for YEARS. I feel your pain. Try to remember that what you’re doing now is you being on the path to greater independence down the line.
| Be horny and be happy.
| I'm sorry you feel like this. I might be about to go through a major life change soon and it scares me so I know where you're coming from in some sense. All I can say is that many people feel like this, and my best advice is to focus on a few things that you can and want to change about your life. Maybe it's dropping out of school, maybe it's changing your major, maybe it's moving away and starting over. Try to think about what you would regret not doing.
| Also, it's been said before, but if you're scared of talking to people, discords and twitch streams are also good places to meet people. I personally have found volunteer work in my community to be a good outlet for having people to talk to and for improving how I feel about myself and my community.
| >>893960 I've been in the same situation for a couple years. It really frustrates me that almost everyone I've talked to about it only has advice, they never actually take action to help me. Only tell me I should do something differently. I barely have the ability to do the things I'm already doing! So far, only two people have actually helped: my dad, who found me a therapist, and my therapist, who at least tells me what to do instead of suggesting.
| So I'd like to ask you OP, what would you like other people to help you do? I doubt I can do any of it but I will at least not tell you what you should do instead.
| >>893983 Honestly I have no idea what actionable steps I want to hear. I typed this in the middle of what felt like derealization or something and I was having a hazy breakdown
| Kys faggot
| Hope you'll feel better.
| Hey buddy, almost all human have that kind of situation and ik that you can't just force yourself to be happy, why don't you try to find something that interesting and help your mood cheer again, cause that's usually work for me since i have history of trying to commit suicide
| >>893996 Get therapy and work on your social anxiety or order some shrooms and microdose on them, preferably both. It sounds like the root of your problem is lack of socialisation so you must try to fix it up. As for what you will do after college, you will need to get a job ofc which requires being sociable so that's another good reason to work on your anxiety.
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| Genuinely don't know what to do anymore. I'm a transfem who just started my senior year of college. I can't bring myself to do anything because I'm scared of fucking talking to people and I spend most of my time that I'm not in class crying alone in my apartment. I don't even know what I'm going to do after I graduate. I'm sad. My brain is foggy. I just want to sleep.