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Question about Fetishisim
| I mean, its an addiction like anything else tbh. You're on the right track by understanding that you have a problem, in this case, an obsession with someone. The cold turkey route is the hardest, but another way is to find something to replace the obsession with, preferably something less destructive.
| Fetishes are based
| op it sounds like you're thinking about this too much
| I'm pretty sure feeling attraction to someone is normal gurl. If you want that attraction to go away then stay away from the person, but, it really sounds like you might be confusing fetishism with sexual attraction.
| The only way to get rid of thy fetish is to replace with another.
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| How would you go about un-fetishizing someone beyond recognizing that porn is a fantasy? From my experience, knowing this hasn't lead me to stop being attracted to fetishized representations of people.But I know enough not act on it/appling it in irl interactions.Nor would I expect or maybe even want an irl partner be the things I fetishize,or at least outside the context of sex. Am I just a fucking weirdo? Or I am biased and don't realize it?