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I'm afraid i can only care for people if i think i can receive physical affection from them

| Each time i spend some time with friends or people i like, i realise it's also because i expect something from them.
Is that life ? Always expecting something from the people i talk to ?
Is speech only about trade ?
I'm scared, and i don't want my loved ones to suffer because of me.


| Spoiler: You can't care for people


| You are unfulfilled, unhappy with your self so you want the most out of people if it's selfish. It's something I've struggled with, you need to be more honest with yourself and work on a way to get past that feeling. Only you can fix how you are.
Best of luck anon!!!


| That'a fucked up, op, but maybe there's a reason for this fuck up. Do you feel so unsatisfied with yourself that you always need someone else to comfort you? Is getting physical affection really all you think about?


| >>6d90da
thanks
>>e8abf7
no you're right, i don't only think about physical affection


| >>01f5a2 ????BEST OF LUCK ANON????


| Have sex and have fun


| I mean, I expect the people I care about to not be assholes and, like, show me basic respect and that, but, what you're describing doesn't sound very healthy.
Might wanna look into why that is. If you find the underlying cause for your mindset and fix up in that a bit it should hopefully go away.


| >>2357fb
thank you, i did a bit of introspection before don't worry, and i think i found one of the answers.
i think its porn addiction and a lot of other things.



| >>881116
That's a start for sure. Continue with that introspection, and once you find answers or potential answers look deeper into it and try to fix up in it.
I can't guarantee that's how to solve it, but that process has worked for me before with most social related issues like that.
I wish you the best!


| >>2357fb
thanks !


| >>881137
Oh, and a last little tip. You mentioned how you think porn addiction might be a part of it, right? Try to look into why you have that porn addiction. That's probably more relevant than the addiction itself.


| >>2357fb
shit, didn't thought of that


| >>881174

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