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I wanna know what love feels like
| Holy shit man i wish i could hug you
| Fuck. This hits a little too close to home. Same, g/u/rl. I wish us both a better, warmer, kinder future.
| I wish for the best for all of you, but holy shit it feels damn near impossible for there to be actual love and care in some worlds we are stuck in.
| I wish I could hug one of you g/u/rls and let go early enough for you to still be touch-starved. Making you go on all fours like a mutt seeking more attention from its owner. You’d have no choice but to be my pet and if you disobey me, I’d forcibly rub your nose in your own excrements for as long as it takes for you to realize I’m the only person who will ever love your worthless self.
| I hate socirty.
| Even Mr.Bean managed to get a girlfriend
| Op here.
Part of me just wants to say fuck it and cause as much pain and frustration to everybody around me, but I dont want to lash out, I just want friends and if Im lucky a lover, I dont actually want to harm neither myself nor anybody.
| >>848976 do it, give in to the ambition and take from others what you can’t have. Life is unfair and you should make it so for others that have this privilege. Only then will people realize you should have been loved too.
| I love sex.
| >>848806 >>848844 >>848976
Really sorry you feel this way gurl. I know full well how bad this shit hurts. Just going years without the physical touch of others is absolutely brutal. I remember when a random coworker was really excited just giving out hugs and damn that shit felt really nice. Just a random hug from someone felt better than an orgasm. I am in a somewhat better state than then but,hope life gets better. It will but,only if you put effort towards it.
| >>849002 nah, Im not falling for it, fuck society and all that but Im not going to become what people expect me to be, I hate the world but what I hate even more is treating others like nothing for my own feelings since I lived my whole life being treated like that.
| >>849079 what do you know about me anyways? Even if I might be a loser Im still trying, Im still improving and moving forward, even if in some days my body cant move, I cant eat properly or I feel like killing myself, Im still alive, Im still a smart and athletic guy, its just my lack of social skills due to trauma that is actively sabotaging my life.
| >>849250
>Even if I might be a loser Im still trying, Im still improving and moving forward
This means you're not a loser since you keep getting back up. You're not a loser until you're fine with being one.
>Part of me just wants to say fuck it and cause as much pain and frustration to everybody around me
This however, is fucked, and is the mindset of a loser.
| sounds like u got some mother/father issues bud
| if you're looking for a girl, girls are stupid, they'll fall in love with anyone they find kind or funny who gives them attention
if you're looking for a guy, guys are stupid, they'll fall in love with anyone who looks nice
don't lose hope, just try meeting a lot of people and not ruining things immediately
| >>849298
Not OP, but this topic resonates hard with me as well.
>anyone they find kind or funny who gives them attention
Well that's just a blatant lie, never worked for me. I guess I'm not that funny after all. Most people I've known did consider me quite kind, but kindness can't carry you on its own, it's kinda just base minimum.
>anyone who looks nice
Guess I'm completely SOL when it comes to guys though.
>not ruining things immediately
And now you're just asking for too much.
| >>849298 thank you for your kind words, but I think kindness really isnt the only requirement for woman, I hear "you are really nice" "you are not a bad person", a whole lot and its not like Im not funny, but I have a bunch of communication issues and I dont really know how to approach people and get closer without seeming pushy.
I can very much not screw it from the start but I always get rejection in the end.
| Ugh, tried asking 2 people out watch sonic 2, both are basically ghosting me.
Kind of a bummer, I would accept to go anyway be it as a date or as friends.
Im not even on bad terms with either person, just acquaintances I knew back in high school and kept in touch with, which basically means they have zero interest in me.
| this type of feeling of loneliness is the worst because it feels inescapable at the time.i feel the best way out of it is through self-reflection and acceptance.not sure if it's helpful advice but once i became comfortable being by myself & doing things alone i felt a lot happier and generally more pleasant to be around, then i was actually able to open myself up to others & form meaningful relationships. best of luck to OP
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| My whole life Ive been bullied and ignored by others, never had a real friendship nor any scuccesful shot at romance or dating in general.
Im starved for affection and I could care less for lust, I have hands and thats enough, I want to know what being embraced for who I am feels like, I want to know what being seeked out by somebody feels like.
I tired of chasing people, I hate socirty but I also to be loved by it, I just want to feel like somebody actually likes me.