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I think I love someone who I know is a bad person

| I don't know how to give proper context about her without making this post huge but basically I've had feelings for this person for the past like 5 years and she is at least somewhat aware of this. I met her through my girlfriend at the time when I was about 14 and she was 18. in the years since, she's disappeared for months at a time only to return and flirt with me out of the blue including a time when I was <18 she even sent me nudes which I have very complicated feelings about.


| >>832792 I don't want to go so far as to say she was grooming me or anything seeing as at the time I wanted it but again, I have complicated feeling about it all. regardless, despite all of the terrible and shitty things she's done and how poorly she's treated me I still have serious feelings for her and no matter how often I try to cut her off I always find myself coming back to her and I just don't know what to do anymore


| I read about abusive relationship in a corner of a lifestyle blog once so I have the authority to determine that that is exactly what an abuse victim would say!


| > I just don't know what to do anymore
Find a better crush or stop being horny


| >>832793
Go for it, you can fix her.

Seriously tho you have to resolve the situation, two obvious options:
1. Propose to go on a couple of dates and get better understanding of her personality and make a decision with that in mind. Thats if you actually consider her as long term romantic interest. If not, p.2.
2. Cut her off, seriously. For a short affair she looks like too much of a hassle, for long term arrangement - you can find better.

TL;DR gordian knot, cut it.


| simp


| Mating press always works

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