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The girl I love admitted to crushing on a friend today
| >>828366 The half of me that isn't crying just wants them to be happy together and to help them tell each other about their mutual feelings. Even spent a few hours earlier convincing the girl I love that she shouldn't just reject romance entirely like she'd sworn to do after her last breakup, and she actually listened to me.
They have so much chemistry and complicity and they totally should go for the happiness they can make for themselves.
Sorry g/u/rls, just venting.
| Its okay to feel bad but remember-our fantasies can hurt us. the more we look to them for solace and hope, the more we may end up yearning.
dont worry about waking up next to someone or kissing them on the way to work. that's like worrying "why arent i in perfect cut shape". the more we idealise stuff the barder we hurt when things dont pan out
| i think you will overcome this sooner than you think. but i understand your pain and believe it will make you more compassionate for it.
| rip
| They're officially girlfriends.
It hurts. The fact we'll absolutely never possibly be together hurts so much. Even though I actively worked to get them together... This girl completely changed my life, over half of it, and even though we never were together let me fall in love deeper than I ever had, and discover a sense of uncompromising dedication I didn't think was possible.
It doesn't even feel like reality. I don't feel entitled to her or anything, but just... I feel so empty.
| Is this sadbait? Because all I feel is sad now. Fuck u, OP. But if you're being real, I hope you can move on very soon. This shit ain't healthy.
| >>828971 It's not bait, I wish it were. Moving on sounds scary, like I'd be leaving something important behind... But I understand. And I'm sure with time I'll be able to, if not get over her, at least live with this without too much pain.
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| Like I saw it coming a hundred miles away and I know the friend likes her back because she also told me separately.
I knew we wouldn't be a thing because I confessed a couple years ago, but emotionally I could never let go, it was my dream. I guess it's not really love if you can.
But ahhh, never hearing her tell me "I love you", never seeing her wake up in the morning, never kissing her before heading out, never seeing her adorable face enjoy things in bed, it makes me so sad.