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Mend your relationships
| hugs
| Diplomacy was always an option!
| Been there, anon. Everything will work out in the end, you are a good g/u/rl for trying to do this.
| Good luck!
| Dont do it. Just go no contact and ghost them
| If you work in yourself and go to therapy (if you find a good therapist which are rare) you can get a lot done.
Your family isn't gonna change, but you can.
| I'm working on the same thing OP. I'm glad to know I'm not alone.
| >>813489
There's no reason not to try, but there's also no reason to accept toxic treatment, OP.
Sometimes it's better to just leave the bridge burnt.
| I am going to beat my dad so hard he cries like a bitch next time he raises his voice at me, he deserves it. Fuck him.
| If you had a hostile relationship with a coworker, and changed job, would you come back to that coworker to "mend" things? Probably not, you'd just move on. Then why do this shit for family?
| >>3281ed things with family are more complicated than just a coworker.
Your relationship with your coworker was only inside the company, the relationship with your family has been a lifetime thing .
It depends on every person, trying to amend things with family it's good, but as previous g/u/rls have said, if it is something toxic, its better to let go.
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| I'm coming back home to try and mend the hostile relationship I've had with my family that's been going on for all my life. I'm very optimistic, even now it feels peaceful that I'm going to do this. I'm excited and nervous at the same time. I bet it's gonna take a huuuge load off of me