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sexuality troubles (18+)
| Woah this is strange. But it's not a bad thing, maybe you need to know yourself a bit better g/u/rl.
Mayhaps a good partner could help you to explore yourself more.
But don't ask me how to get a good parner, I don't even know how to get a partner even.
Lol
| g/u/rl it sounds to me like what you're really askin is "what if I'm gonna be awkward or uninterested or incompetent when someone wants to have sex with me?" that's just your insecurity talkin and my recommendation is to just do whatever feels right in the moment and not worry too much about the outcome. the only way to find out... is TRIAL BY FIRE!!!
| Think you gotta look into yourself for that one. Sexuality and how you experience attraction to others is a bit of a complicated thing, and it's not really something others can find out for you.
Just gotta try stuff, reflect, experiment and discover. Or as the g/u/rl above put it... TRIAL BY FIRE!!!
| Doesn't matter g/u/rl, just be yourself. Labels aren't important, no matter if you are demi or not, you are still you.
Even i don't know if im demi or just old school, cuz i can get aroused and feel sexual attraction but i gotta be emotionally connected and been datin for a few months before i am comfortable with doing anything sexual. Im guessin im just old school but i don't really care cuz knowing that ain't gonna change the way i approach stuff. Just be yourself g/u/rl
| I love sex.
| If you have what you suspect is a highly nonstandard sexuality but also very little real-world experience with your sexuality... I recommend you try real experiences before you jump to conclusions. Closing doors for yourself, or throwing yourself into situations you might not be a fan of, on a probably ill-informed first impression is silly.
Preliminarily though... maybe.
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| so g/u/rls, how the fuck do you know whether you are an a/demi-sexual with high libido who likes masturbation or just a poor horny virgin sod who is too undersocialised to really consider having sex with anyone without it being awkward and also falling asleep in the process? no joke,i remember anytime when making out i just became boneless and cuddly, whatever horny energy was gained at the start fizzles out very fast (even if i wouldn't mind serving my partner if they asked)