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How do I deal with hard shit in life?

| Not only is my sister's kid severely developmentally impaired, which has been pretty hard to deal with as is, found out today my sister also has breast cancer. Obviously not a very fun time for the whole family, and of course mom took it the hardest. Dealing with the news was already pretty challenging, but seeing mom so devastated completely wrecked me as well. I don't know what to do now. Life has not prepared me for this shit. I don't know if you even can be prepared. What now?


| Deal with It.
Sorry but you dont have any other choice.
Or if everything turns out to be to hard to deal, you can pack your shit and get the fuck out your house and let everything and everyone behind. You can do whatever you want to.


| It doesnt matter if you prepared or not. What matters is that this shit is happening right now and your family needs you the most.


| So keep your head up, and do something about your life, cause youre the only one who can do It.


| try taking laxitives before and after you eat


| Go play val, jill managed alright so can you.


| >>ff8efb
> Deal with It
> shit is happening right now and your family needs you the most
> do something
Yeah, exactly why I'm asking *how* to deal with it. What's that "something"? I mean, I'm trying to be as helpful and supportive as I can, but what if I'm not doing enough? And while I'm not necessarily a good person and don't really want to deal with any of it, I'm also not even remotely enough of an asshole to >get the fuck out your house and let everything and everyone behind


| Like, shit is obviously going down south. Has been like that for a while but it really picked up the pace recently. I guess what's really scary is not having even a modicum of control over any of it. I'm trying as hard as possible and it's all still fucked. Which makes me think that I should be doing something else and trying harder, but that's way beyond my abilities. It's hard enough just keeping myself together, much more so everyone and everything around me.


| I suppose there isn't really a point in even asking this question... The only one who can answer it is, indeed, just me. But I still do feel lost and confused. Maybe all I needed was to rant a bit, so as to not keep these weird, unusual, almost foreign feelings bottled up.


| Meditate, research cures. Honestly people being happy and visualising victories actually healed themselves just by that. Watching comedy shows was another one. Stuff like Noni juice and organic food seems to help a lot.


| Have sex and have fun.


| >>0b299f

the best thing you can do now is to support and be by your family's side, and not give them any worries. there's nothing else you can do, it's not like you can cure cancer


| >>ff8efb
Dude... You really need to take a long hard look at your rhetoric.


| >>ba2acc and you really need to take a long hard look at deez nuts


| >>767141
Well duh, that's the only way to spot them. They're tiny.


| >>767175 lmao you fucking shredded her

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