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| My dad isn't an alcoholic right now, but he used to be. He took up multiple loans from multiple different banks behind my mother's back for 10 years straight to pretend like we had more money that we did and that he wasn't spending all our money on alcohol that he got wasted on every single night.
He didn't even attempt paying down the loans until he got found out. My mom had to take legal ownership of all our bank accounts to stop him and attempt saving our financial situation.
| That + a couple other things completely ruined their relationship, and since they didn't have the balls to get a divorce and my mom doesn't earn enough to keep up with all the costs on her own it led to them, me and my sister having had to live in a fake "happy home" for over 7 years straight now. It's caused my mom bad mental issues, made my mental issues worse and now that my sister is getting older she's started noticing that she lives a lie and is now fucking with her as well.
| But, hey. My dad is happy now. He stopped drinking alcohol and lives in an environment that's predictable and that suits him personally really well. He doesn't mind that it's so fake because it means he can live a "normal life" without having any strong emotional attachment to anything.
| I grew up with alcoholic parents. It was HELL. In my 20s I started going to Al-Anon and that pretty much saved my life. Cause even after I moved out I was still fucked up
| My mother's parents were alcoholics. Her dad used to beat up both her and her mother, gamble and loose all of the family savings and even food, almost killed her twice. Her mother wasn't that much better.
My mother's first husband was an alcoholic as well, and did all the things her father was doing. She and my older sister thankfully fled from him when he got imprisoned. Otherwise I wouldn't even had a chance to be born as this assole would have definitely killed them both.
| My dad's childhood wasn't all that much better because his father was a very heavy drinker who abused his wife.
Thankfully, my parents have learned their lessons and do not even look in the direction of alcohol. I'm really glad they were strong enough to overcome all these difficulties life had inflicted upon them, but it pains me immensely to just think about what they had to endure in their lives
| My father is an alcoholic and drug addicted. When i said to him i did coke for the first time he bought some to have some "Fun" with me.
He makes the life of my mother a living hell. I did beat him twice but nothing changed.
| When i was a kid, like, with 9 years or something, my mother, my grandmother and my aunt used to drink and sometimes they would pull down my pants and start saying that i had a big dick for my age, while my father was spreading STDs around the city
| Jesus, now im reading this and i got to a conclusion.
My life is really fucked up.
| >>3466a1 i really wish that everything i said was just to get attention from you, but sadly it isn't.
But it is ok if you dont believe, i just thought i could tell about it since everyone here is talking about alcoholic parents.
| Serves me right for opening myself on an anonymous board
| Just one last thing, do not think that because you live a normal life and with a stable family, that everyone has the same thing.
Many people in this world suffer a lot, for several reasons. and it’s not just because it’s completely outside your reality that it’s a lie.
If you have a happy life, a stable family, I’m happy for you and I hope you place a lot of value on all of this.
But learn that not everyone lives a decent life, unfortunately.
| >>758266
>Serves me right for opening myself on an anonymous board
I'll just do the same then brah
Beaten in childhood by dad (still somehow a good guy), dad got cancer, had to be put in special hospital ward... dad beat cancer, got cancer again, beat it again, then got cancer and didn't beat it again. Personally I turned into a total sperg because of this which means I was a bullied nofriends kid, making it even worse...
So now I'm a bit fucked up PLUS daddy issues.
| I spose it was a bad seed eh?
In me it resulted in being unable to relate to anyone, hardline introverted, anxiety, social disaster, no relationships, and then the depression... very lonely life so far, but you get used to it. It messes with your brain though.
Come back to the thread, sucka.
| >>758266
I think it was more about how you presented it. The stuff you had to endure during your childhood was horrible but you articulated it as if it was dark comedy. We have a lot of people here who tries to be funny by posting edgy jokes so even if you're sincere people might not get the point at first glance.
Just my two cents.
| >>3466a1 i dont know how i can express myself properly in this language im sorry.
Im from Rio de Janeiro, i learned english in my own, watching American comedy shows or shit like that.
So i learned to talk in this way in your language.
Im mor trying tô be funny, Sorry for my bad english
| Not***
| On my own**
Danm i feel so stupid
| >>758364
You're not. Don't worry. Language isn't a very easy thing, and as someone who also isn't a native English speaker I know how it is. I had a hard time expressing myself in English for years. It takes time.
| >>758364
Like the other guy said you're not stupid and you don't have to apologize. I have a hard time expressing myself as well.
Anyway sorry for derailing.
| Sincere in a second language can come off abrupt in a way a native speaker view as immature tumblr whining.
Feel for you, cycle of abuse and all. But to be a little hopeful, i sincerely wish one day in the future assuming things get better that you can laugh at it.
Not "haha omegalul i was a victim of abusive parents and can't function well."
But something like "life is better now, to think these things happened to me is humorous because they feel like someone elses memory."
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| Ive been continuously dealing with a horrible mother who thinks alcoholism is gonna solve all her problems thus affecting everyone around in a negative way especially mentally - a frequent event for years
Im not gonna go into detail as Im interested in hearing others experience with this be it even just one person on here