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How do i not make it weird?
| Have two boyfriends at once.
| Then have a threesome with them.
| Two boyfriends at once not a serious option? I think you should just gently tell him you're not into him.
| He will suffer in any case. Have mercy and at least make it quick for him.
| cuck them both
| Why are you all such fucking cucks? Please dont do that to your boyfriend for the love of god.
Anyway, do what you said and talk about it with him, its gonna be weird yeah so what? If the guy gets upset over you not wanting to be his girlfriend that'd retarded. Look, just be straighforward with him about how you feel and leave it at that, you're overthinking this.
| I think i may have worded it strange, i dont want to date this friend and i dont tbink he plans on making a move on me at all. I told my boyfriend about this friend and how i think hes into me now, and we both agreed he might be. My boyfriend said that ghosting him out of nowhere is being a bad friend to him but i think staying good friends with him is a little cruel. I dont think theres a win here.
| Plus, i could be wrong about this. What if he doesnt have feeling for me at all and im just overthinking it... though he started buying me things and drawing me and all... thats definitely a sign. The dilemma is he knows i wont date him, he said himself before im too young, but do i keep being close with him even though this is going on? Or do i distance?
| Have sex and have fun.
| Genshiken Season 2, Ep11, 13:40 is your answer. Honesty is always best policy, for everything. There's nothing to second guess or worry over with honesty. Ez.
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Enough with this does he-doesn't he. Gently ask him if he's into you, then if he is, tell him you're not into him. Don't distance yourself! He might value being your friend more.
If you're sure he KNOWS you're not into him, but he still wants to get close to you, that's even better. That means he just wants to be nice to you, but you don't have to treat him any special way.
| Man, that sounds awkward as hell.
Imo, if your friend knows that you're in a relationship and does nothing to interfere with it, it's okay to just keep being friends, without any of those awkward and embarrassing Big Talks. That's probably what he wants as well since he's aware of the fact that you're not romantically into him and doesn't try to change that
| It can be awkward at times yeah,, but y'all put my mind a bit at ease. I guess inaction is the best action, hes an adult that is choosing to be closer to me despite everything so ill trust the choices hes making for himself. Just going with the flow now. No way would i go up and talk about it to him
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| Rip the band-aid off quick. Stringing him along might lead to feelings of resentment, so I think it's better to just say "sorry, in taken. however I'd still like to be friends" or something like that
| There is a good chance you might be wrong about your friends feelings. So, no need to do anything out of the ordinary imho.
| Better to kno im wrong than keep it festering in the back of my mind
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| So, i have this friend that I think has developed feelings for me. I already have a boyfriend and they know eachother, and theyre friendly and all so no issues here.I told my boyfriend about it and he agrees that this guys got something going on. Idk what to do about it if anything though, hes cool and a good friend so i feel bad about letting him feel that way about me...but distancing myself would also be bad bc he doesnt derseve to be treated coldly. Should i leave it alone or?