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When was the last time y'all were in a relationship?
| ... And I feel good about it, I have learnt to validate myself and feel worthy without the need of someone else, plus I can actually enjoy time with myself now, which is cool, so yeah... No relationship in about 2-3 years, and feeling great, how about y'all
| Never been in one.
Only ever was really interested in two girls but got rejected both times. I don't really go searching for a relationship either.
| Never been in one as well. There was this one person who was really interested in me, but because of my inability to properly ineract with people I forced him to, quote-unquote, "forget about my very existence", only to realise a few years later what was really going on between us, and that I loved him as well.
In other words, I am an idiot who is doomed to be alone forever because of my poor skills in dealing with humans and understanding my own emotions and feelings
| Never been in one either. Damn is danger/u/ just where people like us converge?
Some time ago I made a thread about how I'd love to have a partner but have never feel attracted to anyone. Still true to this day.
| 4 years ago. Normal relationship for 1 year and then went long distance for 3-4 months. Glad I ended it tho, that shit gave me issues that still last today.
I would actually like a relationship, but with the way my country is handling the pandemic I don't think that'll happen any time soon (I can't do long distance for many personal reasons)
| A couple years ago. It was a long distance relationship too. We never got to actually meet IRL despite it going on for a few years, so it just wasn't meant to be, I suppose. Haven't been looking for a relationship since. To be entirely honest, I feel like that was my last chance at being close to another person, and I completely squandered it.
| Honestly think I'm more auto cause I don't really feel anything real connection to anyone besides myself. Tried it a couple times and it felt like I was trapped. The other person was way more happier to be with me and I'm like ._. It's just hard for me to care about another person.
| Never
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| Nevergang rise up
| Never been in a proper one. Never been rejected either, because I just don't get a lot of romantic feelings for people. It's extremely rare, and the only time I've had a very strong crush on someone it was a straight guy, so I didn't even try to ask him out.
With girls, some have caught my interest for, like, a few days, and I'm not gonna try going for a relationship based on that.
I guess I've just got so solid friends that I don't feel desperate for closeness, because I have it.
| A what?
| I have a girlfriend and she treats me like shit, and never sucks my dick.
Idk why im on this relationship.
I want to breakup but its been 3 years already idk if this is the right choice
| Never been in a real relationship. There were a couple girls that I dated for like a couple months, but nothing I saw a future in.
I need to find someone I'm really compatible with on a deep mental/spiritual level but im not sure if someone like that exists and it hurts sometimes.
| >>754908
I'd like to have at least someone I could safely confide in, but I've never had friends that close. Guess that's mostly on me for erecting this many walls around myself, but oh well.
>>755030
The *what* thread? Pretty sure you've mistaken me for someone else.
| >>755040
Yeah, you have to be willing to let your walls down to get truly real friends. I completely understand having walls up though, I keep a mask on most of the time, but, for a few select people I take it off and it's made life so much better.
| +1 for nevergang. 24 and on my to becoming a wizard xd.
| >>755089
A friend of mine used to say something similar. That he was gonna be a virgin until he's 35 so he could be a sage.
He ended up being the first one in our friend group to lose his virginity.
| Long distance 5 years ago. I've been talking to someone lately and we've already gotten physical but sometimes I feel like no one I've talked to since has ever "clicked" with me the way I did with my ex did back then. At this point I feel like I should just force myself to try "dating" just for the sake of it... which is what I'm doing now, I guess.
| Like in highschool some girls had crushes on me and I was legit too dence to notice it. Like harem anime protagonist logic but real life. That's the closest I got to a relationship, besides that nothing.
| >>755095
It was really funny seeing his bio online change from "I'm going for sage (35 year virgin)" to "Virgin task failed". Almost like he was genuinely dissapointed in himself for fucking his crush. He's such a weird cunt.
| Two years ago.
I was widowed just before covid.
Cancer's a bitch.
| More than 2 years ago.
As we were the only 2 weeabos in our class in highschool, well that was it and stayed together for 4 years.
Ultra wholesome at first, huggy and all, but I kinda didn't love her anymore and we didn't went to the same school so that was it.
Now is the asocial introvert incell life.
| About a year ago.
| Past life.
| >>754900 What are you waiting for? If you're unhappy and she treats you like shit you should break up with her. Don't sacrifice your own health for a toxic relationship my guy.
| I'm in schrödinger relationship
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| >>755172 I am sorry to hear that, please don't give up hope. It is very difficult to lose someone but life can still be good.
| 4 years ago when i was 17-18...
| Never was in a romantic relationship. I'm 29 now. I don't feel like I'm missing anything.
| If I don't get a yandere gf this year I'm going to become the joker.
| 1 month. Felt so dissapointed. I was in an online relationship for at least four months. Later discovered "she" was in reality "he".
He confessed to me he likes to pretend to be a woman for manipulate and use simps but he felt in love with me in the first days.
The worst part is that wasn't the first time, IT WAS THE FUCKING FOURTH.
Nowadays I can't trust online people, I only see men pretending to be woman to seek attention from simps.
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| Mine was a long distance relationship from 2-3 years ago... I don't quite recall the date. But before the pandemic started and while in therapy, I just stopped looking for a relationship, not in a bad sense, but I used to have this horrible habit of having relationships with people I didn't have feelings towards because being in a relationship gave me validation and I couldn't live without it... So yeah, I have been not looking for a relationship in a year...