This thread is permanently archived
Is depriving happiness from someone else to be happy yourself still happiness?
| Not really, no. It's unhealthy for you and just suddenly cutting off the people who care about you is gonna leave them feeling sad and like they're the problem, that you don't like them etc.
It's something you should talk with them about instead. Open up to them, explain that you need some time to work on yourself, stuff like that.
| The way my soon to be Ex GF thinks, that's just "figuring yourself out" >.>
| >>744981
It's true that you sometimes need breaks from people to figure yourself out, but just suddenly breaking people off is, no. Just, no. Bad. Bad for everyone involved. Leads to just lots of pain everywhere.
| yes because you are happy
| Just behave as an adult, tell them you don't want them around you anymore, and that's it.
As long as you tell them, it's fine. Don't listen to the ones here who imply you have a "Responsibility" towards them. Be polite and respectful, but also don't force yourself to be around people you'd rather see away.
| I like to siphon happiness from people by capturing them, filtering out the dopamine, seratonin, and other happy young hormones from their blood, and then put the resulting juice into a jerryrigged insulin pump.
People ask me why I'm always upbeat. I use a drop of vanilla on my stick deoderant on each pit.
Get your cremé filled cookies while they're hot! Mmm vanilla clam cookies! Vanilla is an aphrodisiac.
This thread is permanently archived
| i just cut everyone off who cared about me cause i was just unhappy to be with them , is that fair?