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Just a reminder:
| Nothing but truth. A lot of people brush it off or undermine it when they're told these things, but it really is the truth. You have a lot of potential. Even at your best you can become even better, and at your worst you've got plenty of room for improvement.
Even though life ain't fair, even though there's always gonna be people who hate you and try to trip you up, they're nothing compared to the people who care about you, and even more importantly they ain't shit compared to you.
| tell that to my subconscious
| Sus
| >>744893
That part is up to you. All others can do is explain it to your conscious, then you need to take it from there. It's not easy, but it's definitely possible. I'm proof of that.
| Niggas be like "you're worth it". ok nigga worth what
| >>745125
And that's the mindset that's keeping you there. You can either complain and keep telling yourself that things won't get better, or you can genuinely work on it.
I used to think like you. I really did give up on ever getting better, and eventually on life as a whole. But, I met someone. Someone who quickly became very special to me, but who thought the same way I did. Who had given up long ago. And, well, that honestly changed everything for me.
| I could clearly see how much potential they had, how much strength they had in them, and how much they had to live for. But, they didn't see it themself. And, while having a conversation, I realised that it was the same for me. It took years of trying, failing, giving up, almost ending it and meeting the right person at the right time. Now my life, while still hard, keeps getting better little by little, and my mental health, while not great, has been less and less of a problem.
| >>745131
i hate the way you act like you know what's going on in my head and that i just gotta do it bro
| Giving up is a choice. And, I've made that choice before, and I probably will again some day. But as long as you realise that, as long as you know that, and as long as you know that getting out of the place you're in is fully possible despite being a challenge, you can pull through one day.
| sounds like the same drivel the motivational speech youtubers shit out on the regular. life has pounded faith out of me.
| >>745134
I don't, and I personally dislike the way you try to dismiss what I'm saying as if I haven't struggled with multiple types of mental illnesses, mental health issues, overthinking, self destructive behaviour and suicidal episodes my entire life. But I don't think aggression is going to do anything for either of us.
I'm just telling you what I've experienced.
| >>745137
You've done it to yourself, and you clearly don't want to change.
See, homie, I'm not a therapist. I'm no proffesional. I can only talk about the shit I've personally been through. Right now, the few positive parts.
But, if this is something that annoys you and you think is bullshit, you should try researching some psychology. Try finding out the facts instead of talking like you know them. Okay?
I just want you to feel better, but you don't seem to want to feel better.
| >>745139
I'm trying to explain ways to feel better to someone who clearly needs it, but who's made their mental problems a part of their identity as if being mentally ill is a personality trait.
I know, because I used to that, and I knew others who did as well. That's probably the worst thing you can do for your mental health, and you need to knock that shit off and stop thinking and acting like an edgy 14 year old if you want to feel better.
That might be harsh, but it's true.
| so you succeeded in being harsh to me. didn't change much.
| >>745142 you can continue to say "I can't" and suffer. or you can move past it and start making your life better. everybody always has these choices.
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| You're worth it. You probably don't see it yet, the potential you really have. It's okay to fall, no trench is too steep to climb. Keep your head up high, because even at your lowest point, you can only go up. I'm really proud of how far you've come and how hard you've been fighting, even if no one else sees it.
Do good and stay hydrated <3