Does not having any friends prove I'm boring as a human being?
Post number #635714, ID: 71e673
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I used to think I'm just unfortunate to not meet any people I'd click with, but having grown adult I realize I must've just been boring.
Post number #635735, ID: 7f289e
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You are not unfortunate. Having friends sucks
Post number #635751, ID: 9d080d
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i have no frends too nigga
Post number #635761, ID: 946c46
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All it means is that you haven't found your clique yet. They are out there, the perfect group of people for you, so keep searching!
Post number #635763, ID: cb0815
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>>635761 WHERE THE HELL ARE YOU GUYS
Post number #635799, ID: 71e673
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>>635761 How does one even search for a thing like this.
Post number #635805, ID: f2936a
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friends r overrated play dating sims instead
Post number #635837, ID: 53c306
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>>635805 friENDS, waifus are for laifus
Post number #635886, ID: a64b77
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It doesn't. As another anon said, you just need to find the right people. That's not always something you can do consciously though, and it's kinda RNG when you find them. Just being outside and putting yourself in social situations can help though. Like, I used to have very few friends because I only really talked to the other weebs/socially scuffed people in my class. The rest of my friends I got by putting myself out there and joining a group of people with similar interests.
Post number #636539, ID: 71e673
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>>635886 You had webs and socially scuffed people in your class you could talk to. That's awesome. I had normies all the way to adult life surround me.
Post number #636542, ID: 384dbe
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>>636539 Unfortunate. It is still fully possible to find people though, even as an adult.
Post number #636628, ID: c79296
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I agree. You'll find people you'll click with. I'm sorry it's hard to do, but they're out there.
Post number #636788, ID: 451f6e
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>>636542>>636628 Where? I don't even know how to start looking.
Post number #636799, ID: 384dbe
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>>636788 It depends what kind of people you're looking for. For example, if you're looking for nerds and degenerates like us on this board and LGS would be a great option (if you have one). Bars and social events can also be a good way to meet new people. You'd be surprised about how good friends you can be even with people who have very different interest from you.
Post number #637084, ID: ebc02f
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Meeting new people is very hard after a certain age but no matter what you need to constantly put yourself out there. Staying inside never gives you any openings.
Getting a hobby that forces you to go outside or to a dojo are excellent opportunities. You're there for a reason other than making friends and if you enjoy yourself other people will want to talk to you since you share an interest.
This isn't really possible today or in the near future depending on where you live.
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| I used to think I'm just unfortunate to not meet any people I'd click with, but having grown adult I realize I must've just been boring.