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How many of you are virgins?
| Well, I'm 21 yo and I had a girlfriend. But back there, when I was 18 yo I was just like you, so don't worry, getting laid isn't a main priority in life.
Trust me.
| I'm 23 and I never had a girlfriend.
| I fucked a trap if that counts. Awkward af. Maybe someday I can find a real g/u/rl.
| >>514393
Same, actually. Going steady on my way to becoming a wizard. Already prepared my robe and magic hat.
| Am 37 and have wife, am def not virgin. Was until 26, however :/
| I'm 17. Last month fucked a girl on a party. Oral sex is better imo.
| 28 and will never have intercourse or a romantic partner
| >will never have intercourse or a romantic partner
If you start talking like a normal person you might have a chance.
| >>514510 pics or it didn't happened.
>>514519 https://youtu.be/_OJ3x78Sk8c
I'ma Virgo... does that count?
| I'm 20, do blowjobs and fingering count?
| >>514563
im not a normal person. im exclusively a pedophile and ill never have a romantic partner. there arent chances for me.
| haha i just got interrogated by one of my female non english speaking coworkers about why i dont a wife or kids, she said im getting old and must have a lot of money with nobody to spend my paycheck on. through the language barrier i made up some bullshit about women being trouble. im tired of pretending everything is fine. i really want to die.
| Was already mentally prepared to become a wizard. Met a girl of a friends birthday party, we exchanged numbers, and here I am. This was like half a year ago. I'm not able to become a wizard anymore and I have a wonderful girlfriend. Life's crazy.
| *a girl on
I'm 20yo btw.
| 19, soon 20 and a virgin, never had a girlfriend, got rejected a few times
| >>514365 anxiety aint a excuse for being virgin.
I have anxiety and i have an active sexual life since i was 12
| >>514368 word fam, sex aint everything in life. I think that our main goal here is to be happy and share this happiness
| >>514671 Dude do u even know what anxiety is? Are you saying that because someone has anxiety he/she aint able to have an active sexual life? That's kinda stupid, no offense
| >>514678
Well maybe you wrong? Because I know what it is. When you can barely talk to someone, or start a conversation. If you really had anxiety you wouldn't say anything that retarded.
| I love sex.
| >>514588 oral sex and insertions of fingers were involved between two parties, one of which was me
| >>514682 Dude if u can't talk with someone or start a conversation, that dont Mena shit, that don't mean u have anxiety. This is the most stupid thing ive heard in a lot of time
| You're shy thats it, its more easy to you to put the blame in a mental problem them admit you're afraid of people. You're just a pussy you don't have anxiety
| Don't call me retarded, it isnt my fault that you can't deal with people and have a sexual life, its yours.
| So like i said, you can have anxiety and have a normal sexual lofe OP, seek some kind of psychologist.
My anxiety was fucking up my relationship with my girlfriend, but with when i had put my ego aside and seeked some help, i learned that we can deal with this shit without interfering with our life. I know u can win this fight <3
| 26 y/o virgin checking in. Becoming an atheist two years ago has not made me drown in pussy, who knew folks?
| >>57a80a
Wow, what a fucking dipshit. You're not entirely wrong, but try not being such an asshole about it, maybe that'll work out better.
| >>514793 Dude come here calling me retard and you expect what? I've tried to be friendly but if someone is being an idiot with me that gives me the right to retaliate
| Its funny cause most of the people didnt even seek for a specialist in mental health, and go around yelling about having "anxiety" or "depression", making a kind of "auto-diagnosis".
Sometimes you start shaking outta nowere and sweating like a pig in a slaughterhouse, sometimes you feel chest pain and it hurt as fuck, sometimes when i try to go to work, i enter in a panic state, its when i think i gonna die anytime soon.
I don't wish this shit to anyone, not even my worst enemy.
| What makes me mad is to see people using this mental problem to hide their insecurities.
It a serious thing but edgy teens make memes about it like this is some kind of joke, they try to use "anxiety" and "depression" to justify their mistakes.
Like i said, its more easy to them to put the blame in a mental problem than facing the fact that you're can't socialize.
| I'm 17. Doesn't even remember if I had any friends anytime.
| >>514811 "What makes me mad is to see people using this mental problem to hide their insecurities."
You can't read or are you just stupid?
Call me retard i dont care, that don't change the fact that you're a coward who uses a mental disease to justify your virginity.
You're banalizing "anxiety" acting like that, if you knew what it really feels like to live with that shit everyday you won't say this kind of bullshit
| bitch be faking mental problems cuz he can't get no pussy, grow some balls
| >>514822
>Call me retard i dont care, that don't change the fact that I'm a retard
fix that for you
| "everyone who disagrees with me its a retard"
yeah yeah right
| Why is this so funny, my sides, retarded g/u/rl can't accept that she's retarded.
| >>514823
Yeah no, please do fuck off with statements like that. You may not be a retard but you seem to like acting like one.
| >>514887 i take some strong medication, but just when i have a crisis. I try to not stress myself.
Sometimes when im with my friends and i feel the anxiety coming, i try to talk with them about it, i say what i feel and this helps A LOT. You should do the same, say to them what you're feeling, what is making you afraid, if theyre really your friends they will help you.
A hug sometimes is better than pills.
| >>514905 so, a long time ago, before all the shouting, I think you were trying to make the point that anxiety is not necessarily sex anxiety. It is possible to have sex and not feel anxiety at all, but something else easy for me can be very stressful for you, etc.
| >>514924 Yeah! Thats what im trying to explain, idk why they freaked out, maybe its because the truth Hurts. Sure, certain things are more easier for me than for you and vice and versa.
But saying that someone with anxiety can't have an active sexual life its a huge mistake
| I'm 22 and I've been in a relationship with one girl for 5 years (with a small break). And I'm still a virgin, though I guess only in technicality.
Different strokes.
| Like, ok if you both are in some type of celibate or something.
Its a religion thing?
| 70th reply to the thread of virgins, chillin with the 2/5 of my virginity
| >>514966 >>514970 >>514973
It's not that we have done "nothing". We've done everything but intercourse. Not for religious reasons, there's some amount of phobia we're working through. I don't think it's for any cultural reasons either we both grew up in Cali.
I guess I'm in the 2/5th or maybe even 1/5th of a virgin group tho.
| >>515182 Awnn, Mr Anxious Phimosis are u mad??
I thought you couldnt barely talk, but you can, at least to call me retard. Why don't you have the same balls to talk with women?
Maybe its because you're too busy
entertaining me here and jerking off to some cases, you gonna die virgin, sad :(
| *Cartoon fucking bitch ass autist keyboard
| >>515185 how tf do you lose part of your virginity? Did you thrust 3/5 of your dick in and pull out
| >>57a80a
>What!? You call me retard because I disagree with you!? UNACEPTABLE!!!
>You don't agree with me, so you must have phismosis and can't talk to any woman, go die a virgin!!!!
| >>515284
You think girls are scary, and you calling other retard? Haha
You're not in the position to speak like that.
| >>515279 he said that he can't barely talk ou start a conversation.
I Just repeated what HE already said :D
| >>515291
For fucks sake, with every post you somehow manage to come off as a bigger piece of shit than before. Seriously, how do you even do this? I'm genuinely impressed.
| Thank you but, don't let random people in the internet make you mad like that, its bad for your heart ya know
|
Most of people here are salty because the shoes fit PERFECTLY with what i said.
Bunch of guys who cant talk to women faking anxiety to justify the fact they can't socialize, and their insecurities.
You may be an asshole that do this shit but i wish you NEVER have to experience what REAL anxiety is.
Edgy teens who don't respect the problems of other peole asking for respect is the worse joke ive heard in a long time.
| >>515290
That's obvious because of how they art and I barely can imagine how to talk to them. They never intrested in stuff I intrested or I don't want to be claimed as a harasser or whatever.
Btw you still a retard.
| >>515311 Maybe if you stop thinking like that it would be easier to talk to them. Women are the magnum opus of nature but they re just like us. Sure theres a lot of girls who are interested in what you are, you just have to look in the right places. You like anime? Its more easy to find a girl like you in a convention. You like rock? Rap? Go to a show with some friends and try to interact, it isnt hard, ik u can
| If I was you i would be very sad that i could talk with retards but couldn't with women, well, thats life.
| >>515311 Well, why would you be labeled as a harasser? Just saying hi in the right place and right time isnt a motive to any woman be afraid, unless you touch her of course.
| >>515307 aren't you the edgy teen here who's not respecting the problems of other people? Okay, great, you have anxiety. No one cares. Being social and comfortable talking to opposite sex is a very real issue for a lot of people. It's not necessarily the same as your anxiety, but you have to think outside the box a little and imagine that other people are different than you. Your solution of "just talk to them, duh" is like me telling you to not have anxiety... "just relax, duh."
| >>c74c58 i lost my Virginity when i was 16yo. Was the worst experiencie ive had. Dont push yourserlf, if you dont have a girlfriend its okay, and dont be stupid like me and enjoy your first time.
| Not a problem for me anymore !
| >>515810 My point is that people don't want to admit that "ok, im a shy person and i can't socialize, how i can fix that?"
They rather act like "oh i can't talk to girls and im a virgin, omg i have anxiety"
The guy above was acting just like that, saying that someone with anxiety can't have a sexual life, and he didn't even bother to understand the matter that he was talking about.
| How the fuck i gonna respect someone that can't accept they problems just to banalize others problems?
| Other people's*
| soon 25, shared the bed with 5 girls so far, got rejected multiple times by the first (2 years ago) where we always cancelled intercourse. it was not really a relationship by her terms and she left me after ~5 months. the others were more like dates where i lost interest when i noticed that they were interested in me and waiting for me to take action, i guess.
| real story, i snuggled in to 3 drunk onee-sans on the bed because i had nowhere else to sleep in. then it all happened i guess
if it makes you feel better, i was 12 at the time, and im female
| >>514593
Good on you dude. While I'm not a pedophile myself, I've always hated the fact that everyone treats you guys like criminals.
Like, child rapists deserve to die. People who watch child pornography deserve to go to prison. But the pedophiles who haven't done anything like that (most of them) don't deserve to be treated like monsters when they've never done anything wrong, simply because they are different.
(Plz don't ban me, just expressing my opinion.)
| >>515977 They didn't do something YET.
Can't trust someone who wanna fuck a child, thats common sense.
Wtf is happening with people nowadays man...
| >>8cecfb you better be sure to hide this disgusting taste of yours or youre are fucked.
I would say to you seek some kind of mental treatment but theres nothing that can fix your fucked mind, so, hide under a rock, its better for everyone.
| >>515989
Can't trust edgy cunts either. You never know when they'll say a bunch of stupid, cringey shit because they're way too desperate for attention. But, well, I'm giving you attention now. So I guess you win this time.
| >datamining to see if people are traps and others that can persuasively become traps in the future on here before starting your trap psyop on the catalogue
I see u FBI...
| my id is different from before.
>>515977
thats really kind to say.
thank you.
>>515990
thats really unkind to say.
please stop being upset.
| >>516055 Why would i be kind with someone like him? Fuck this, you are defending a PEDOPHILE.
may volt noiad
| If you think that you're being kind in thinking that "oww sad lil pedo why everyone want to fucking kill you?" You're dumb or innocent as fuck.
If you had a child you wouldnt say Dumb shit like that
| >>516117
And you're just inhuman if you wish for people to die for something they have no choice over.
| >>516118 and what do you think that we should do with someone that is a potencial thread to children?
| >>516118 "oh you hate pedos you're inhuman"
Really? Hes the fucking PEDO and you're calling ME inhuman?
bitch wtf
| This stupidity level is over 9000
I really lived to see people getting butthurt because im saying "fuck this pedo".
| >>516120
A pedo that rapes children would rape even if he was straight.
>>516121
Sex is not all life has to offer...
>>516125
It's a difficult topic. But saying all pedos should die is on another stupidity level. It's the easy way out.
| >>516126 EVERYONE has a complain but nobody is capable enough to come with a solution.
If its sooooo importan to you, give an idea of what we shoutld do with them.
| I ask again, what we should do with them?
| Its easy to bitch about every idea and call others stupid. If you're so inteligent why don't you come up with an better solution?
| >>516138
I can answer that, but if you just going to dismiss my idea with a "YoURe DeeFNENdiNg PeDO???? Are U RaPe???" then that's kind of a dick move.
I think that instead of saying "go die" we should offer help. If you don't want someone to do something, the answer isn't to treat them like they have done it.
If everyone treats someone like a rapist, even though they've never raped anyone, that may just end up pushing them over the edge.
(1/X)
| The solution is not to treat them like monsters. That's how people used to (some still do) treat gay people. That lead to most gay people being depressed, and either kill them selves, or have a secret relationship that ended with someone finding out and killing them, or them killing themselves.
Basically just death.
Now, there is a significant difference between gays and pedophiles. Gays can have sex with the ones they're attracted to without hurting anyone. Pedos can't.
(2/X)
| But that doesn't mean that pedophiles can't live a relatively normal life. That doesn't mean that they should all just kill themselves or be killed.
Everyone is different, and pedophiles are different from each other too. They're just normal people who are attracted to someone most people aren't.
There are ways for pedophiles to at least partially fulfill their fantasies, while still having it be just that. Fantasy. Like sex dolls.
(3/X)
| Child like sex dolls are illegal, like, everywhere. There are people who have been sentenced to years in prison for ordering once, and that's in the US. There are probably much worse sentence other place.
Now, why should that be illegal? It's not a real child, and it's not like using sex dolls trains you to be a rapist.
There's also loli hentai. Cartoons. Fiction. Enjoying something fictional doesn't mean that you're going to do the things shown on screen.
(4/X)
| Playing violent games, or watching shows with rape scenes don't make people into murderers or rapists. So why should watching loli make you a child rapist?
It doesn't. It doesn't make you a rapist, but it probably helps calm your urges.
So I think we should start by making child like sex dolls, fictional pornographic depictions of children, and those sorts of things legal.
That would make it a lot easier for pedophiles to control their urges and be less miserable.
(5/6)
| Making those things legal, and allowing pedophiles to talk to therapists about it (not it "cure" them, but to actually help them), and the last step, normalise it.
If everyone can start accepting pedophiles. Treat them like humans, not as monsters. Let them talk about it. Let them fantasize about children. That would help them mentally, and if they're mentally stable, they'll never rape anyone.
That's the quick version of my solution.
(6/6)
| im not accustomed to seeing someone else argue so hard on my behalf ;-;
| >>516155
It's a topic I'm really passionate about. I hate how kink shaming and not accepting others is looked down upon, but so many people seem to hate and be ok with people hating pedophiles.
It's hypocrisy at it's worst, and not just that, but it's socially accepted to be like that. It's sickening. Can't people just let others be as long as they're not hurting anyone?
| >>516137
Sorry I work full time and don't have the time to keep refreshing a textboard, but thankfully >>05360c stepped in and offered some ideas on what could help against the insane alienation that is happening to pedophiles.
| >>05360c What kind of help you thinking? I think you kinda right, but like i said before to him "you should seek mental treatment but theres nothing yet that can change you fucked mind"
I would agree with you, if it wasn't for one thing, theres no treatment or anything that can change this.
Its kinda useless to say that he needs some help if don't exist any way of helping.
| And its not hypocrisy.
We can't hate someone whos gay or trans, because they wanna love people that have sense of what sex is, people who have sense of what they really want.
Its very different from someone who looks to a child who don't know shit about life with malicious intents.
Not everything should be tolerated, understand?
| I disagree with you but i thank you for your patience of explaining your point of view for me.
| >>516225
It genuinely makes me happy to see that you took your time to read what I had to say, and answer properly.
Now, when it comes to the treatment thing, well, there isn't any treatment. It's impossible to change something like that.
What I meant with having them go to a therapist is to talk about the depression, anxiety, stress etc that they might feel from having to repress their urges.
They wouldn't go there to get "fixed", but to have good mental health.
| >>50dca1 huh, im happy to see a reasonable comment on a pedo conversation, it gives me hope for humanity and mental health services.
| >>516245
Idunno, I'm pretty much all out of hope after witnessing >>57a80a and knowing that he kinda represents the majority.
| >>516227 Yeah but i dunno, its like a time bomb. With therapy or not, i don't know how someone can trust a pedophile. He will be wondering how feels to have sex with a child, and sometime somewhere he gonna try it.
Or "just" seek CP, but thats is fucked anyway.
| Children kinda are the only type of people thats is close to being "pure", and to think that exist people who want to ruin this makes me feel angry, i wish you could understand.
And its even worse tye fact that they want to ruin it just for SE UAL pleasure, ik what im saying?
| Sexual*
| time bomb argument is a meme. believing someone is doomed to hurt others is defeatist to where there is no room for trying to mitigate harm or make things better. you create a self fulfilling prophecy by taking away possibilities of preventing harm from happening.
even Child Sexual Abuse prevention experts see the need for destigmatizing pedophilia. saying CSA cant be prevented is a huge slap in the face for their efforts.
| >>516253
I get what you mean. I understand it. It's not like I don't get why people are scared of them, but it's an irrational fear.
I don't like using the "gay" example all the time, but that's what people thought about gays for a long time
Some people were scared of them because they thought they would rape every male they see.
>>516257
Yup.
>>516252
You know, statistically, most pedophiles have never done anything like that. Also, all the stuff above.
| >>516257 its okay but i don't understand how yøu can compare gays with pedophiles.
Gays don't mean harm to anyone, but we can't say the same for pedophiles ya know?
| Im glad to find someone that has the patience to expose his point of view, and didn't try to call me a retard Just because i disagree with you.
We don't share the same ideology but i wish you the best <3
>>50dca1
| >>516291
Same to you man. Last time I expressed my views I got thoroughly fucked, so it's nice to see someone who can disagree without killing me.
Have nice day man!
| Im*
| >>516338
idk most people dont conduct themselves like colossal assholes and tell others to die. before you were going on about pedos you were on an autistic rampage over someone who said they had anxiety, and being a douche to someone who said he was still a virgin despite being with a girl for some time. you are definitely dont resemble the majority of people, who are much more well adjusted.
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| I used to have girlfriend for 2 years and im steel virgin...
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| I'm 18 now and tbh I'm not the most popular, good looking or social person around. Infact I'm more antisocial and have anxiety.
But I just kind of what to know how many of you older g/u/rls who where similar at my age ended up virgins or not