I broke up with my boyfriend
| I guess im back to being boyless
Nothing much will change though, dude never had time to see me
I literally have had cats give me more time, love, and affection than this person
I can't stand a partner that does not show he appreciates you
It just feels like being a side bitch, but at least the side bitch gets dick and flirting once in a while
Ugh T_T
| >he didn't want to open his heart to me
this is what men are taught to do, dumbass. go be mad at patriarchy rather than your individual relationship
| >>1116920 nah skill issue on dudes part
Sorry you had a rough relationship op I hope your next one works out better
| >>1116922
Thanks gurl, and its okay, relationships are complicated
I'm just frustrated I like him so much but we don't fit
| >breaks up through text message
You didn't have a real relationship
| >>1116920
You seriously can't be this clueless? I know saying this is toxic around these parts but you unironically need to get out and touch grass if this is how you see the world because you're obviously stuck in a bubble.
| >>1116926
I had a similar relationship a few years ago with a female friend who was 8 years older than me who I really clicked with. We ended up dating which was fun for like 3 weeks and then she became distant and non caring etc so I can kinda relate. It totally sucked! Our relationship ended and so did the best friendship I've ever had. When we dated it was like I was seeing a completely different person than the one I knew before.
| A duel for her love atop a burning ship!
| >>1116917 and instead of trying to be understanding and empathetic and trying to find some common ground to ease the mental burden you were probably just selfishly thinking that youre not getting enough attention oh poor you. a lot of ppl dont have it figured out yet, you know? saying "pretty pls talk to me even if you feel like you cant" is obviously not going to mean anything to someone struggling like this
| anyway, its good you broke up because clearly neither one of you gave a single shit about the other
| good
i fucking hate anyone in a relationship
| >>1116970
Spending time together, and talking about our feelings
We had such a nice date or two months ago, just watching the sunset and talking about his fears and dreams and whatnot...
Then he just had no time for me. It is either politics or housetasks or whatever.
I told him i was lonely, that Im needy and that I want to see him, but nothing changed.
A trusty friend once told me he saw him outside. I brushed it off.
He himself told me a time or two that he went out
| Or he would sent me a picture of somewhere he'd been that day (close to my home) after he had left and gone back home.
It just felt like he was playing with my feelings, and I don't understand why.
We ended up having a discussion over my text. I guess he wants to keep trying "see if things flow that way" he says
I guess I'll see what happens this time. I don't have high expectations, I don't really consider him my boyfriend anymore.
| lol
| >>1117031 "see if things flow that way"
g/u/rl that dude is retarded
he had a diamond in his hands and didn't care it slipped through his fingers
Don't think he'll ever put an ounce of effort into this
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| I just sent a breaking up message to this dude
I hate that shit ended this way, but he didn't want to open his heart to me, and he suffers in silence instead of telling me "I didn't like that thing you did"