Trans Tuesday - AMA
| As usual, questions, feelings, and general discussions about gender, hrt and related things are welcome
Happy Tuesday everyone! <3
(Haven't done my shot yet, it's slightly early, but it's hot so I'm laying in front of my fan :p)
| How hit is it right now
| Hot* android hq you will be receiving a pipe bomb in your mail momentarily (satire)
| How did it feel before you transitioned?
I didn't even know what HRT was at the time so I cried myself to sleep every night
| >>1111252 it's ~77° inside my house currently which for me is about the level where it's uncomfortable but not hot enough to sweat
| >>1111254 I had definitely done that a few times for similar reasons
I was also experiencing deep depression and depersonalization, so I kinda just, existed?
I describe it kinda like being a robot going through the motions, or like being a spectator in your own life
| hey stop FOMO-ing me into this
| >>1111289 have you ever considered that every person has a geneticly coded for cup size? Only one way to find out though :3c
| Despite being on E, I don't want boobs
Id look horrible cuz theres no way I'll ever pass
| >>1111289 in all seriousness I think doing some introspection on gender and gender presentation is good for everyone, even if you aren't trans
the default for lots of people is to just not think about it much, but I think giving it thought gives you the tools to better find what parts make you happy <3
| >>1111295 that feeling, that you'll never pass, is really common
Even some of the most beautiful trans women worry about passing
You've gotta do what makes you happy, don't let others decide your body for you
| I mean that in the most loving way possible <3
You deserve to be happy in your body no matter if that means boobs or no, just make sure it's what *you* want <3
| >>1111296
I think it's fine to not care about gender and just be cis or nonbinary without thinking about it tbh
| >>1111303 I'm gonna be real IDK how someone comes to the understanding they're NB without thinking about gender
I might have trouble communicating the idea clearly
But I basically just wish people would do some introspection on their gender so they're more confident in their own gender & presentation etc
I think a lot of mean spirited comments etc come from a place of insecurity, and I think that's kinda sad
| Also before I forget, today's injection was no pain, bit of blood as per usual, I should really put an order in for some 27G needles soon, I've got quite a few 25G left but I like the 27G more so I might as well just use those and keep the 25s as backup
| izutsumi saying gender
| May the gender be with you!
| >>1111296
>find what parts make you happy
boobs make me happy but i dont want a set of ones myself. fuck that
| >>1111346 I think it's good you know you don't want them, do you know what aspects you like about yourself now?
| >>03a54b
i'm sorry to say this but you could've stopped at the first bad decision
like you had at least one tour to realize you're bad at making those
| Do you have like, an ideal goal of how you want your body to look? (Like maybe you wish to have certain body type, look like x or z person, etc)
and if yes, What makes you wish for that body in particular?
| >>1111390 I probably won't be able to convince you that you'll pass over text but I hope you don't let that fear decide things for you <3
| >>1111405 for having a body type or looking like someone else, not really? I think that's a trap lots of people irrespective of gender fall into though
I think right now I'm mostly in wait and see mode, E changes where body fat goes among other things, so most of what I would change already is, just slowly
I'm probably lucky in that I'm sorta built like my mother is, so we both deal with wide shoulders etc and that makes it easier to accept things I think
| >>1111412 I think you have healthy attitude, keep up the good work
I hope you find happiness in your journey
| I wanted to say thanks for being nice to me in the other thread. I wish I could be nonbinary but I don’t want to be a burden. Sometimes I find peace using a male body. Most times I just feel bad but it’s more a general sense of repression than gender.
I’ve been growing longer hair and I’m so so glad I went to a stylist. I often feel ashamed of my long hair, but it looks good sometimes when well styled and freshly cut.
| >>1111456 <3 I'm glad to hear you're experimenting with your hair!
I obviously can't tell you if you're nonbinary or not but, cis people don't usually wish they were
cis people are usually pretty happy to be the gender they are
There's a lot of talk about dysphoria in trans spaces so I want to add that before I realized I was trans I thought I had none
when you live in a cave the dark damp cold feels normal
Follow the light, the euphoria, what makes you happy <3
| Also want to add that being yourself isn't a burden to others, and anyone who acts like it is, is just trying to make their own bigotry your problem
Be you <3
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| I have transed my gender, pray I do not alter it further