Post number #1086471, ID: a6bb32
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I have one person in my life which I hate the most - one women that manipulated me for half year and in one day started asking me for nudes 5 hours straight. I was 15 btw. She didn't do anything to me physically, but mentally did. I hate her so much, that my hands are shaking whenever I talk about this. When I was 16 I told her that I will tell everyone what she did, but she started saying that she will kill herself if I do this and I couldn't do it. II wish she would kill herself
Post number #1086478, ID: 9cdc96
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sorry you had to go trough all that
Post number #1086485, ID: cda6a9
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>>1086478 NEVER apologize.
Apologies are a sign of weakness.
A signal to your enemy that you are unwilling to stand up for yourself, your morals and your values under pressure and can be pushed to a breaking point.
Post number #1086491, ID: df8db8
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beat the shit out of her
Post number #1086492, ID: 9cdc96
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>>1086485 you're fucking delusional and probably a weakling loner autist in denial
Post number #1086511, ID: cda6a9
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>>1086492 this is literally a copypasta from a sonic video...
As for the op, yeah, shit happens. My nun was a hot high school girl and she tried to seduce me to have sex with her when I was 7. That didn't work of course because my dick wasn't ready physically at that age. However, we kissed before that. My mom didn't believe me.
This did affect me a lot in a lot of ways. Especially how I treat women. It certainly isn't the end of the world. Therapy helps to some extent.
Post number #1086513, ID: 1fb1be
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>>1086511 >this is literally a copypasta from a sonic video... So she was right calling him a delusional weakling autismo lmao
Post number #1086515, ID: cda6a9
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In any case, good luck op. Releasing your anger (fury even?) is key to cases like this.
Post number #1086517, ID: f66764
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>>cda6a9 insincere-chan strikes again
Post number #1086518, ID: f66764
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>>1086515 this is some angry incel energy right here. pathetic.
Post number #1086520, ID: 1fb1be
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>>1086511 >My nun was a hot high school girl
Who the fuck talks like this about their supposed abuser? You're clearly lying lol
Post number #1086521, ID: cda6a9
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>>1086518 you know nothing about the psychology of the sexual abuse treatment. Accepting rage towards your abuser is one of the most important parts.
>>1086520 she was an attractive young woman. I couldn't accept it for years because "beauty = danger". I am in therapy for like 5 years at this point so it is easier to talk about it now.
Well, yeah, I understand why people don't believe it. It is not supposed to be in this world.
Post number #1086522, ID: cda6a9
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Anyway, yeah, sorry op, I never meant to divert attention to me. I sincerely wish you good luck.
Post number #1086528, ID: 995351
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>>1086521 Hahahahaha, you're so full of shit. Releasing rage isn't "sexual abuse treatment" you fucking idiot.
That's your only advice and you claim to be an expert on and I quote "the psychology of the sexual abuse treatment"??? Lmao give me a break.
Post number #1086529, ID: 995351
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RELEASE YOUR FURY
Post number #1086537, ID: c25cc7
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one of these days we genuinely will have a traumatized normie try posting here and there will be not a single supportive post from anyone on the board it is what it is, alexa play despacito
Post number #1086538, ID: cda6a9
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>>1086528 learn to read you fucking retard. I didn't say it is the treatment itself I said it is a part of it. The treatment is sharing your story with someone who cares. Good luck doing that with a fractured psyche.
Anger is the most accessible emotion for men and can be the first step to unite a fractured psyche into something whole. It can and probably will take years to access it in a SAFE therapy setting. Despair, horror, sadness, disgust, shame can all come after anger.
Post number #1086539, ID: cda6a9
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If you are not emotionally connected to your trauma then you are just reciting facts from wikipedia. This is why anger is key. It is the first emotion that comes in the processing of trauma. Then you can cry about and so on.
Post number #1086545, ID: 86f0ae
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>>1086537 If it's believable and not toxic then she will get our support, but this asshat is peddling an obviously fake story to encourage FURY and misogyny.
Post number #1086547, ID: 846d7c
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Furry : D I’m sorry u got hurt OP. There are a lot of trolls here. Maybe ur one but who knows.
Post number #1086550, ID: 4af7b2
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>>1086521 >you know nothing about the psychology of the sexual abuse treatment. This is the most pathetic attempt at "accuse the other side of the thing you're guilty of" I've ever seen on this site... and that's saying something!
Post number #1086551, ID: a1fc9c
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>>1086511 >I was 7. That didn't work of course because my dick wasn't ready physically at that age. wut?
Post number #1086559, ID: d2f5de
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>>1086511 woman pedos exist?!?!
Post number #1086575, ID: f18a54
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>>1086545 >If it's believable and not toxic kindly write sincerely: "if they fit my personal idea of a good victim" otherwise, talk to FIFA about a job, those are excellent portable goalposts they'd love them
Post number #1086587, ID: 1fb1be
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>>1086575 Stfu you desperate liar.
Post number #1086588, ID: 1fb1be
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>>1086575 I mean that in the most sincere way; Shut The Fuck Up
Post number #1086593, ID: c25cc7
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>>1086587 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Accusation_in_a_mirror i read mein kampf as a school assignment, so good luck fooling me with that. anything else?
Post number #1086596, ID: 41085a
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>>1086593 Braindead response
Post number #1086597, ID: c25cc7
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>>1086596 right, back to epstein island with you then
Post number #1086598, ID: 41085a
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Spoiler alert: even though you're a pathological liar you suck at it and no one ever believes you. Way to waste your life in a skill you're too dumb to master. It's sad and pathetic lol
Post number #1086599, ID: c25cc7
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ok liberast
Post number #1086600, ID: 41085a
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Why are you far rightoids like this? Mental illness and brainwashing? Yeah, that's it. Literal NPCs.
Post number #1086601, ID: c25cc7
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ok liberast
Post number #1086611, ID: a1fc9c
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>>c25cc7 lmao you're so mad
Post number #1086627, ID: cda6a9
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>>1086545 I am sorry that the real world events don't fit in your belief system. Nothing I can do about it.
>>1086550 I literally study psychology. I witnessed how therapists work with real sexual trauma in a real group setting with my own eyes. I know that it works at least for the people I saw and myself.
>>1086551 your dick is not ready for sex at that age.
>>1086598 you know that this g/u/rl is not me, right? Right?
Post number #1086635, ID: 7626f5
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>>1086627 it's just embarrassing at this point... why do pathological liars never know when to stop? hilarious though.
Post number #1086639, ID: cda6a9
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>>1086635 you can talk to me directly instead of whining to an imaginary crowd. I am open for a discussion.
| I have one person in my life which I hate the most - one women that manipulated me for half year and in one day started asking me for nudes 5 hours straight. I was 15 btw.
She didn't do anything to me physically, but mentally did. I hate her so much, that my hands are shaking whenever I talk about this.
When I was 16 I told her that I will tell everyone what she did, but she started saying that she will kill herself if I do this and I couldn't do it. II wish she would kill herself