Chat should I ask someone I know out?
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| Is she is "AroAce" she is retarded, abort the mission
| this ^
abort mission, seek someone at least romantically inclined
| That sounds like a recipe for disappointment!
| I say try it! Maybe you can be life partners and not fuck
| Tf is AroAce
| >>1078868 got it. Well, I honestly wouldn't waste my time on a person who isn't interested in romantic relationship while I am. It honestly is such a pain in the ass.
| >>1078847
Aro = I don't want any emotional responsibility
Ace = Trauma or hormonal issues
Hard skip for a relationship, stick to friendship.
Don't be surprised when she gets into a pseudo-relationship and has sex.
| I mean fair enough to the people to the people who are saying no, but there's no need to be mean to this person, shes quite nice. Its not like people without a desire for a relationship or sex just dont exist yknow.
| Honestly I'm not too huge into conventional style relationships either, kinda make me feel icky and like they're based off of gaslighting happiness
| >>1078871 damn it's that good to be a aroace and have romantic-relationship repellant on you at all times?
I gotta introduce myself as an aroace then! My extremely avoidant-ass wants zero (0) romantic relationships!
Much easier to handle my life without someone else on the mix
| >>1078917 not really, people will still hit on you and try to get you into a relationship/sex, unless they have already had experience with an aro/ace and know it's only trouble.
| never
| OP, ignore everyone else on this thread. Yes. Ask her out. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
Even if it's not a conventional relationships you might still get something beautiful out of it.
| The target is not worth shooting
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>>1078944
Correct!!!
Also what does aromantic even mean if you’re already asexual? Isn’t romance just close friendship+sexuality? Do they not pay favors back?
| >she
>aroace
Look, you should tell her how you feel, but expect to be shut down hard. Being honest with your feelings is the emotionally mature thing to do.
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| Shes AroAce and i dont want her to lose faith in me or the world but. Idk i just think shes really cool.