did sexy time now feel like a monster
| hey man you're doing great, but maybe she likes it slow. Why not ask for consent next time.
Maybe she's not that into the sexy time yet or wants more time or wants a different sexy time. Ah how fun is trying to understand another~..
| But you did think about her and thats brilliant! Don't be so hard on yourself she will forgive your manly desires!
| I love sex.
| if she didn't tell you that she did not want sex, and did tell you she wanted sex, then it is your responsibility to treat her like an adult with agency. if she is not an adult with agency and presents as one, skill issue
modern feminism makes everything into rape when the only thing being raped is the blue haired maid's mouth
| >>1036416 unexpected wholesome comments g/u/rls I appreciate you
I suppose the lines of consent blur when one is scared of the other and says things they do not want while the other is too dumb to notice...
but I did stop the moment she finally said it so I suppose there are shades of evil and I am not in the deepest dark yet.
| Try sex
| Try doing guys. Theyre alot more direct about this stuff.
| hi op. i am on the other end of this right now. the fact that you are being considerate and asking is more than what some people do. you don't have to castrate yourself, just give her a lot of room to have the type of relationship she wants without any pressure. sometimes that might mean letting her know that she doesn't need to pressure herself, either c:
| >>1036421
no this is wrong if someone is weak u shouldn't hurt them and if they're incompitent and telling u theyre capable you should get them out of your life! Imagine if you were dumb and thought you wanted sex got sexed and made to feel hurt and sad even though others knew that would happen :(
>>1036416
nice g/u/rl :3
>>1036531
other nice g/u/rl :3
| >>1036531
you sound like a good g/u/rl but if sex hasn't worked with her why don't you find someone who really does want sex or just have her as a friend? I don't want to have sex with people who aren't my friends but my friends don't want sex so I don't have any :( Maybe you can go to a theme park with her or on a bike ride or watch a nice anime? It feels so sad though having the sexual impulse others don't want.
This thread is closed.
| did sexy time with a girl and as we kissed something felt off and I asked if everything was alright and she said "yes, I'm fine."
I asked a second time and still she agreed. Then a third and only then she said that she did not like it, she did not like intimacy and she was scared of me.
g/u/rls I had my first time together with her two weeks ago. now I wonder how consentual that really was and if I should seriously castrate or kill myself, g/u/rls.