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| The thing is I didn't give an absolute statement like "I'm bailing" or something. I just have that first friend a choice of if he wants to keep associating with me even knowing that a big drive in what I look forward to is selfish. I don't care what they decide in the end, it's their life. I just hope the other guy is doing alright.
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| I realized something about myself. Something I subconsciously want from my friendships is validation. Almost always. The thing is that I feel like having my friendships driven by a need for validation is selfish. So I told a friend the details, we talked for a bit and he got back to me later. Though the other friend disappeared. At least they weren't there when I was looking.