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I want my GF to piss in my mouth
| just do extreme cunnilingus
| Turn her into a wife first
| By the way, I am Pomu de una famulia noble Pomulia, and I am doing it on my stream!
| cash works
| Using words and speech generally helps convince people
| Get on your knees and beg.
| Step 1 ask her to even if it's over text
Step 2 read/listen to her response
Step 3 be an adult and accept whatever she says and don't try to guilt her or manipulate her If she says no
| Guidelines for Objectives Effectiveness: Getting What You Want
(DEAR MAN) A way to remember these skills is to remember the term DEAR MAN:
Describe
Express
Assert
Reinforce
(Stay) Mindful
Appear confident
Negotiate
Describe: Describe the current SITUATION. Stick to the facts. Tell the person exactly what you are reacting to:
>“I haven't been feeling sexually gratified.”
| Express: Express your FEELINGS and OPINIONS about the situation. Don’t assume that the other person knows how you feel.
>“Even after we have good sex, I still feel like I'm missing something.”
Remember to use phrases such as “I want” instead of “You should.”
Assert: Assert yourself by ASKING for what you want clearly. Do not assume that others will figure out what you want. Remember that others cannot read your mind.
>“I want you to piss in my mouth.”
| Reinforce: Reinforce (reward) the person ahead of time (so to speak) by explaining positive effects of getting what you want. Clarify the negative consequences of not getting what you want.
>“I would feel much more satisfied with my sex life if you do that.”
(Stay) Mindful: Keep your focus ON YOUR GOALS. Maintain your position. Don’t be distracted. Don’t get off the topic. Keep asking, saying no, or expressing your opinion over and over.
>“I would still like my mouth pissed in.”
| Appear confident: Appear EFFECTIVE and competent. Use a confident voice tone and physical manner; make good eye contact. No stammering, whispering, staring at the floor, retreating. No saying, “I’m not sure,” etc.
Negotiate: Be willing to GIVE TO GET. Offer other solutions to the problem. Reduce your request. Focus on what will work.
>“How about if I piss in your mouth?”
Turn the problem over to the other person:
>“What do you think we should do to get my mouth pissed in?"
| From DBT Skills Training Handouts and Worksheets, Second Edition, by Marsha M. Linehan. Copyright 2015
| have u tried pissing in hers first so she understands ur intent
| I want your gf to piss in my mouth too, OP
| make her angry, she will then naturally pissed off at you on her own
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| How do I convince her to?