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How do you start having a sex life
| and I don't want to turn into an incel.
| Have sex and have fun.
| You're doing it right OP, it's just that people don't want to fuck you. Nothing to really do about that honestly, people don't just fuck when asked, regardless of how good looking someone is or how cool someone is (although it certainly helps).
| Ask this
You, me, now?
| Just get a dog
| If you want to skip or at least reduce the flirty ang get-to.know-each-other part you could use a dating app, go to swinger clubs, porn cinema and similar places. Just don't expect to end up in a relationship that goes bejond the fuck buddy stage
| >>891344 I don't want to skip past that, I just do'nt know what to do to progress it at all. Or even if I'm actually in that stage (as opposed to getting baited by straight boys)
| >>891349
Straight boys are not the best progress measurement for emotional development. Post your discord and I'll give you some honest assessment and coaching.
| >>891349 I mean sex isn't everything OP,I think being insecure about whether you a virgin or not would make you look more like an incel than if you just decied to stop giving a fuck about it. Just focus on improving yourself, find new hobbies etc, from there you would probably be more confident and meet new people. Even if isn't guarenteed to get you SEXO. You're still are better off doing that.
| >>891359
>Straight boys are not the best progress measurement for emotional development.
no shit!! thanks for your offer but I will decline
>>891572
I'm neither a virgin or particularly insecure actually. I just feel like I am uninformed on some part of the meeting people to banging process. But probably the solution here is "meet more people until someone shows me" since I don't think I'd be able to really describe what part is missing and it just seems like the people I
| know right now just all happen to not be interested.
| >>891582 >>891581
No worries, g/u/rl. Just trying to help.
Are you being upfront and direct? Setting the mood? Gauging their interest?
| >Gauging their interest?
well this is pretty much where I ended up. I tried to let people I was interested in them mostly by compliments and just generally by responding positively any time sex was brought up. But mostly that just lead to them joke-flirting back like they haven't even considered it. I assume that probably means none of them want to take it any further? Or maybe I was just unclear.
| I've had other friends that were interested before and those people tend to act more brazenly. But right now they're all in probably monogamous relationships so that's not going to lead anywhere anytime soon.
| By the way, I am Pomu de una familia noble Pomulia, and I offer segus to you
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| I got molested when I was young and I avoided having sex for a long time and now I'm 20 and have literally no idea how to find people to fuck. Previously people have asked me but I don't know why because that just made me really uncomfortable then. I tried flirting with like 90% of my friends but that didn't go anywhere. Is there like a step in between flirting and asking to bang? Does one just need to meet a lot of people? Please help, I'm so jealous of the other /d/ posters