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What is your sexual opinion about the increasing loneliness?
| What we're doing wrong is staying inside too much. To combat loneliness you need to go outside to meet people. If you're looking for a partner it may take 20, 30 or even 40 dates until you get the hang of it and things begin to run smoothly. The key is to get out there and have fun.
| Mating press.
| The internet ruined everything, that's what happened
| I just wanna give up at this point, nothing I ever do changes the results.
| >>840299 get out... where? what do people even DO where you meet other date eligible people? is it all bar dating forever?
| >>840361 true, bars aren't even that great of place, specially if you don't like drinking or music, it's also a bad place to find people who are looking for something meaninful
| the best way to meet new people and potential partners is to join new groups where you know someone but not everyone. or maybe you can ask a friend to introduce you to someone >>840361
| >know someone
>a friend
prerequisites again
| >>840361
Like someone already said, bars aren't that great for finding something meaningful. You're better off going to places you find entertaining or interesting like stuff related to your hobbies, or branch out to new stuff that you're interested in and have always wanted to be part of. The key is doing something that *you* want to do, something that you value or enjoy.
| General tips to directly and indirectly benefit your dating life: Delete hookup apps. Join hobby groups. Start conversations with strangers and have zero expectations of the outcome. Start volunteering for things like soup kitchens, senior homes, animal shelters, etc. Maintain good fucking hygiene and personal fitness. Practice social awareness i.e. context clues, tone, body language. Start offering genuine compliments to people regardless of whether you want to date them.
| I met my gf through a shared hobby of reading. We mostly argued while people told us to get a room. You'll be the last one to realize you found the one...
| >>f6bde1 I realized this was the first person who actually was completely straightforward with me instead of playing games, and I got a lot of enjoyment out of arguing together. Her opinion of me got better through mutual friends, and I ended up confessing. She thought I was joking the first time because we had been so terrible to each other. Love her to bits, being able to talk about anything with someone feels better than sex almost.
| For me personally I don't go looking for people cause I cum in under a minute and people would find that disappointing. Yet somehow I'm still horny af so idk what do
Ppl don't say you gotta love yourself first for nothing, if I really end up liking someone I don't want them to be with a lame quick shot dickhead like me so I just don't shot my shot.
Basically, more people should try orgasm denial
| >>840539 G/u/rl... You have a mouth, two hands, and two fucking feet. Surely you can figure out a way to get someone off without relying on your minuteman penis. Toys are an option too. Nobody worth a damn gives a shit if you shoot your wad faster than The Flash. Actual penetration is only one small part of of the dance. I think you're just making excuses, aren't you?
| >>840632 Most likely but also it's a big part of the dance ngl. Being honest with these things is kinda hard
| >>840643 Not to downplay your insecurities, but this isn't as serious as you think. No decent person would shame you or judge you for nutting early. This is especially true when you have skilled fingers and a hardworking tongue. If you're comparing yourself to porn, don't. It's fantasy. Most people don't want marathon sex, and a fully loaded cock is absolutely not required to satisfy your partner. Foreplay is THE most important thing to focus on. Work on that, and you'll be golden.
| >>840547
Alright alright; with her, comma, gurl.
You're right, it does have a bad ring to it without.
| tbh.. lain
| I love sex
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| I've seen a lot of people frustated by their loneliness and seeming unability to connect to someone.
And not only boys! Girls are also struggling in this situation.
What are we doing wrong? How do we solve it?
Pd: State-mandated bf/gf?