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Am I a good date? AMA
| How hongry are you for pus and do you think it shows?
| Why is this on /d/?
| >>840135 not that much actually, I'm very horny but at the same time I am completely willing to wait till marrige or something, I crave more for emotion and cuddling than sex
| What do you usually do to try to get a date?
| >>840211 I usually text them to ask them out, trying to be polite but also being honest about my feelings.
>>840224 the invitatiin for one, which usually results in I'm not interested or I wanna stay friends.
| Are you straight up texting them blind or you know them? Have you tried flirting with them in person? Do you have reason to believe they're attracted to you?
| >>840438 I usually know them since it takes time for me to develop interest.
Yes of course I did.
Well yeah, it's been a thing that Im very nice and not bad looking, but I end up just being friend material.
| >>840443 As long as you keep a good attitude and don't become bitter, I think you'll be fine. You may have to ask dozens of different people first. Compatibility is weird like that. Average time to find a good match is like ~18 months of actively searching. This sounds really generic, but remember to smile from the heart, be confident, and be comfortable with who you are. Don't see rejection as a failure, but as an experience. Maybe you can learn from it, maybe not. And don't rush.
| Are you being "rejected" more than you "reject" (you lose interest in them and/or only want to have them as friends)? Or is it the other way around?
| >>840472 I never had to reject anyone since I was never pursued, so yeah, it's the other way around.
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| In my whole life I've never managed to score even a single date nor have been anybody's crush, I improved myself, I became more brave, I tried my best but I still can't find one who accepts me.
Honeslty I'm looking for advice and possibly validation or criticism, ask me anything about either myself and love life and then judge me based on it.