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Shameful fetish, what do?
| It's this cycle of bullshit where I cum buckets, only to immediately regret doing it to THAT again, before eventually going back to it again. Is this an addiction? Can someone be addicted to a kink?
How do I stop this and just be "normal"?
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| Like...I thought I'd be fine but for every "it's just a kink, people fap to worse, etc" I think, there's like ten other thoughts towards why it's bad.
| When are you going to talking about the shameful fetish? You didn't mean the wholesome ntr as shameful right??
| Why do you feel so strongly about being "normal"? Unless you're cheating on your S.O. or something like that, there shouldn't be an issue.
Let's say you enjoy stalking and gruesomely murdering survivors in Dead by Daylight. Is that bad? Probably not. Most people don't actually want to act out their violent power fantasies. Is sexual fantasy all that different?
| >>851721
I'm not cheating or anything, and so far it's been strictly in the realm of fiction, thankfully. I don't know why this squicks me out so much more.
Like you said, I can play violent Vidya just fine, but for some reason ntr and the like just hits some sort of shame button in me. Somewhere I know it's just fake and I shouldn't let it get to me, but I also.
It just GETS to me, regardless.
I love it, but I hate that I love it so much. I can't really talk to people about it..
| Well, I guess except on anon boards like this one.
| Fantasies are just that, fantasies. I might be into getting my soul sucked out by a demon lord or being enslaved by a femboy with a huge cock but that doesn't mean I'd spring for those in real life.
| Just curious, what make you cum buckets to NTR? Do you like being cucked? You like cucking others?
| It's because it's shameful that you like it
Secret masochist
You have associated sexual=shame=sexual
| >>64d96c
(I'm op, just a different IP because home network)
I guess it's the part where she "gives in"? Like the moment they swap from "I shouldn't be doing this" to "this feels too good to stop", or something like that. Like I don't want to be cucked, not do I want to check someone else, but something about the scenario just drives me wild.
| Wait how does being a masochist even work?
| if you want to stop having as much of a response to it, stop masturbating to it. you're currently associating cuckolding with finishing which is making it worse - lay off the porn for a while lmao
| Mating press
| Sounds to me you're just fapping then? Masturbation addiction indicates something wrong in your life, a deep rooted disatisfaction with your current life situation.
I'm not saying everyone with a weird kink are fucked up. I'm saying feeling guilt for your own kink, and yet continues to fap away is telltale of some kind of distress.
So yeah.... Fuck.. oh yeah I'm high. That's it, no more talking for me.
| So, thinking about it... I think I'm some kind of masochist, but should talk this over with a professional somehow. Corruption doesn't seem to have the same impact unless there's infidelity involved so I don't think it's that specifically.
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| Asking for advice. I just realized I have a REALLY strong response to themes like cuckolding and netorare, but at the same time these kinks make me feel like shit. I don't want to indulge, but at the same time nothing makes me finish faster. I always say "that was the last time. Never again!", But afterwords I end up pissed at myself for "slipping" again shortly thereafter. 1/2