Green flags to achnowledge (or cultivate in yourself) that will lead to a happier relationship
Post number #819626, ID: 6d3086
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□ Affection □ Takes an interest in your interests □ Friendship □ Positive and supportive about you even when you are not □ Sense of humour - laughs at self □ Willingness to share financially □ Share on all levels □ Being vulnerable □ Being a listener □ Having a fun or childish side □ Enjoying similar things □ Enjoying each other´s company □ Having individual interests □ Supportive of personal growth - not feeling threatened by it □ Accepting past without judgement
Post number #819627, ID: 6d3086
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□ Not comparing you to others □ Respect for privacy □ Respect for job □ Respect for children □ Know that they are not the centre of your universe □ Maturity □ Sense of perspective (not over-reacting) □ Confidence in self □ Fits in - makes an effort to get to know friends and family □ Respects individuality □ Admits mistakes □ Takes responsibility for own needs □ Shares household chores □ Enjoys solitude □ Willing to cope with ups and downs
Don't forget to ☑ your preferences.
Post number #819629, ID: 6d3086
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□ Apologizes when they are wrong □ Words and behaviors align □ Encourages your connections with others (friends, family) □ Speaks about their ex-partners with respect □ Communicates clearly and honestly □ Sets, honors, and respects boundaries □ Shows up authentically and offer you space to do the same □ They are intentional about resolving conflicts □ Actively works on growth and healing □ Shares compatible goals for the relationship □ Makes you feel seen, heard and appreciated
Post number #819719, ID: 8a6a14
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You have autism.
Post number #819730, ID: 2e0150
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□ Lots of sex.
Post number #819732, ID: 73226d
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□ Current anus diameter of 15.21cm □ Does not clap after the movie ends □ Willing to eat booty □ Likes Lain
Post number #819734, ID: 5b78d1
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□ Tomboy □ plays Guilty Gear □ doesn't put pineapple on pizza
Post number #819779, ID: 944df5
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□ Tomboy □ plays melty blood
Post number #820561, ID: f992cc
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Good thread. But being made of green flags still won't get you anywhere if they refuse to see them.
Post number #820627, ID: a3aec5
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>>8a6a14 true and neurodivergent pilled.
Post number #820634, ID: b37be6
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I like my relationships to resemble a stinky dumpster fire tyvm. Chaos is the spice of life
Post number #820637, ID: 6d3086
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>>820561 True. Lots of introverts seem to expect their dream partner to materialize in their bedroom one day. Step 1 is getting out there to meet people.
Post number #820666, ID: 69e8b1
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I can see that I don't have a lot of green flags, although I expect a perfect partner. But I'm not being really honest, I don't think perfect people exist, and I'm not that interested in looking for someone nor the compromise of it.
So.. I'll just chill and vibe by myself.
Post number #820671, ID: 6d3086
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>>820666 You're gonna kill your soul with that mindset, hon.
Post number #820681, ID: 69e8b1
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>>820671 Nah, I'm truly fine with living by myself. I'm asexual.
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| □ Affection
□ Takes an interest in your interests
□ Friendship
□ Positive and supportive about you even when you are not
□ Sense of humour - laughs at self
□ Willingness to share financially
□ Share on all levels
□ Being vulnerable
□ Being a listener
□ Having a fun or childish side
□ Enjoying similar things
□ Enjoying each other´s company
□ Having individual interests
□ Supportive of personal growth - not feeling threatened by it
□ Accepting past without judgement