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Green flags to achnowledge (or cultivate in yourself) that will lead to a happier relationship
| □ Not comparing you to others
□ Respect for privacy
□ Respect for job
□ Respect for children
□ Know that they are not the centre of your universe
□ Maturity
□ Sense of perspective (not over-reacting)
□ Confidence in self
□ Fits in - makes an effort to get to know friends and family
□ Respects individuality
□ Admits mistakes
□ Takes responsibility for own needs
□ Shares household chores
□ Enjoys solitude
□ Willing to cope with ups and downs
Don't forget to ☑ your preferences.
| □ Apologizes when they are wrong
□ Words and behaviors align
□ Encourages your connections with others (friends, family)
□ Speaks about their ex-partners with respect
□ Communicates clearly and honestly
□ Sets, honors, and respects boundaries
□ Shows up authentically and offer you space to do the same
□ They are intentional about resolving conflicts
□ Actively works on growth and healing
□ Shares compatible goals for the relationship
□ Makes you feel seen, heard and appreciated
| You have autism.
| □ Lots of sex.
| □ Current anus diameter of 15.21cm
□ Does not clap after the movie ends
□ Willing to eat booty
□ Likes Lain
| □ Tomboy
□ plays Guilty Gear
□ doesn't put pineapple on pizza
| □ Tomboy
□ plays melty blood
| Good thread.
But being made of green flags still won't get you anywhere if they refuse to see them.
| I like my relationships to resemble a stinky dumpster fire tyvm. Chaos is the spice of life
| >>820561
True. Lots of introverts seem to expect their dream partner to materialize in their bedroom one day. Step 1 is getting out there to meet people.
| I can see that I don't have a lot of green flags, although I expect a perfect partner.
But I'm not being really honest, I don't think perfect people exist, and I'm not that interested in looking for someone nor the compromise of it.
So.. I'll just chill and vibe by myself.
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| □ Affection
□ Takes an interest in your interests
□ Friendship
□ Positive and supportive about you even when you are not
□ Sense of humour - laughs at self
□ Willingness to share financially
□ Share on all levels
□ Being vulnerable
□ Being a listener
□ Having a fun or childish side
□ Enjoying similar things
□ Enjoying each other´s company
□ Having individual interests
□ Supportive of personal growth - not feeling threatened by it
□ Accepting past without judgement