Post number #818158, ID: a9fd27
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I'm in a new relationship with someone, and we recently got on the topic of kinks and other lewd stuff. I realized they were considerably more vanilla than me, so I didn't mention all the degen hentai I had seen/read/played. I know they've at least played some VNs that had wholesome h-scenes. Should I just be open? It's not like the porn I consume is a crucial element of my life, but it's obviously something I enjoy. Don't want to turn them off. Advice, g/u/rls?
Post number #818162, ID: 91dd6d
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Do it. show them your hidden stolen pillow lifeforms
Post number #818173, ID: a9fd27
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>>818162 Okay, maybe not that degen
Post number #818205, ID: 8cf094
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I'd open up slowly about it, one day mentioning that I like this and and another day that I might enjoy that as well so that they would have time to adjust and accept this new information. Don't just dump it all on them and go at a slow pace. There's also a chance they'll start opening up about something as well.
Post number #818212, ID: 610869
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I bonded with my ex over Euphoria. We workshopped our own sick challenges in an effort to 1up one another. Good times. You'll get there g/u/rl.
Post number #818216, ID: 91dd6d
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>>818212 Ohly shit, This is my relationship goal now. Imagine comfy night under a warm blanket while playing euphoria together..
Post number #818220, ID: 583ae6
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Man I don't know how I'd come clean about anything in a relationship where the other person is vanilla. Like they might be turned off by even basic RP stuff such as babysitter and teacher play but here I am so desensitized to stuff like incest due to all the doujins of it.
For me hardcore is taking horsedick down your throatpussy and pissing yourself! How could I ever bring that up to a normie?!
Post number #818223, ID: 583ae6
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Or how I swear I heard of guys who don't even wanna eat pussy or get pegged, how do you live your life like that?! I'd do that in a heartbeat and here they are thinking the only type of sex is missionary
Post number #818224, ID: 91dd6d
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>>818223 Damn.. not wanting to get peg? Just... wow
Post number #818234, ID: 27ce0a
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Enjoy the vanilla and the relationship for awhile then start introducing modest + widely accepted degen, like the type of stuff you find front page porn hub.
Mutual jerk to media can be a good taster, you should know how to escalate if you're not brain dead.
If you get red flags and you are supa :< bail, otherwise enjoy your wholesome handholding.
Post number #818238, ID: 3deafa
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>>818224 imagine having a prostate and not wanting to use it.
Post number #818305, ID: 6d3bb0
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Lol OP, this is one of my fears as well.
My last relationship was great in part because we knew each other's kinks and weren't disgusted by it (through a nsfw discord channel no less).
I think you'll be fine if they're an understanding person and you don't like force it on them or something.
Post number #818318, ID: 94207c
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Thanks for all the replies everyone. I was lowkey freaking out, but I'm good now. Super helpful all of you. Baby steps it is. I definitely won't bring up mommy ntr or anything. Yet...
Post number #818325, ID: 0fe65a
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>>818318 Become inspired by her chastity and convert.
Post number #818327, ID: 94207c
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>>818325 I should become pure? No... it's too late for me. Pandora's Crotch can never be closed once open.
Post number #818328, ID: cd5e5e
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>>818318 you ntr her with your mom or what?
Post number #818332, ID: 94207c
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>>818328 nah just like in general. Your mom too.
Post number #818439, ID: 306229
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>>818158 do it innocently
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| I'm in a new relationship with someone, and we recently got on the topic of kinks and other lewd stuff. I realized they were considerably more vanilla than me, so I didn't mention all the degen hentai I had seen/read/played. I know they've at least played some VNs that had wholesome h-scenes. Should I just be open? It's not like the porn I consume is a crucial element of my life, but it's obviously something I enjoy. Don't want to turn them off. Advice, g/u/rls?