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Should I hide my power level?

| I'm in a new relationship with someone, and we recently got on the topic of kinks and other lewd stuff. I realized they were considerably more vanilla than me, so I didn't mention all the degen hentai I had seen/read/played. I know they've at least played some VNs that had wholesome h-scenes. Should I just be open? It's not like the porn I consume is a crucial element of my life, but it's obviously something I enjoy. Don't want to turn them off. Advice, g/u/rls?


| Do it. show them your hidden stolen pillow lifeforms


| >>818162 Okay, maybe not that degen


| >>91dd6d Lmao


| I'd open up slowly about it, one day mentioning that I like this and and another day that I might enjoy that as well so that they would have time to adjust and accept this new information. Don't just dump it all on them and go at a slow pace. There's also a chance they'll start opening up about something as well.


| I bonded with my ex over Euphoria. We workshopped our own sick challenges in an effort to 1up one another. Good times. You'll get there g/u/rl.


| >>818212 Ohly shit, This is my relationship goal now. Imagine comfy night under a warm blanket while playing euphoria together..


| Man I don't know how I'd come clean about anything in a relationship where the other person is vanilla. Like they might be turned off by even basic RP stuff such as babysitter and teacher play but here I am so desensitized to stuff like incest due to all the doujins of it.

For me hardcore is taking horsedick down your throatpussy and pissing yourself! How could I ever bring that up to a normie?!


| Or how I swear I heard of guys who don't even wanna eat pussy or get pegged, how do you live your life like that?! I'd do that in a heartbeat and here they are thinking the only type of sex is missionary


| >>818223 Damn.. not wanting to get peg? Just... wow


| Enjoy the vanilla and the relationship for awhile then start introducing modest + widely accepted degen, like the type of stuff you find front page porn hub.

Mutual jerk to media can be a good taster, you should know how to escalate if you're not brain dead.

If you get red flags and you are supa :< bail, otherwise enjoy your wholesome handholding.


| >>818224 imagine having a prostate and not wanting to use it.


| Lol OP, this is one of my fears as well.

My last relationship was great in part because we knew each other's kinks and weren't disgusted by it (through a nsfw discord channel no less).

I think you'll be fine if they're an understanding person and you don't like force it on them or something.


| Thanks for all the replies everyone. I was lowkey freaking out, but I'm good now. Super helpful all of you. Baby steps it is. I definitely won't bring up mommy ntr or anything. Yet...


| >>818318
Become inspired by her chastity and convert.


| >>818325 I should become pure? No... it's too late for me. Pandora's Crotch can never be closed once open.


| >>818318 you ntr her with your mom or what?


| >>818328 nah just like in general. Your mom too.


| >>818158 do it innocently

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