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Got really horny after getting drunk today.
| I don't know if I want advice or just wanted to vent...
it felt really out of character for me. I'm flattered that the guy expressed interest in me, and I'm not saying I'd turn him down if he made a move on me. I guess I'm just worried that I'll be looked at different after my outburst.
Also, I'm so lonely irl, and I don't want this to happen again for fear of creating an awkward position for myself.
| Cude powermove. I usually only flirt with strangers but secretly I want 3 of my best friends to use me as a cum dump :3
| >>817105 *shrug*
I mean, I do fantasize about my friends pinning me down and fucking my brains out sometimes, but that's fantasy. I don't want to become *that* gurl, you know? I don't want sliding into dms and begging people to suck their cock to be a normal thing.
I know I'm just frustrated, but if I've done it once what's stopping it from happening again?
| >>817107 dont drink again ;)
Jk, I think its fine to have those desires, everybody has it and yeah it isnt said or expressed, but you were drunk, its a free pass to say anything stupid and while its just a fantasy, you can still make it happen, sure you dont want to be *that* gurl, but I think that if you wxplai why you want to do it to a friend you really trust, it will be fine.
| Ngl g/u/rl, this is kinda tame. A good friend will think this is out of character for you and won't put much stock in it. Unless... they catch or have already caught feelings for you. In that case, they're now fantasizing too. Pretty harmless imo. Personally? I think there is room in a healthy friendship for sex. But I'm weird and have weird friends. If you don't want this to happen again, ya gotta find a satisfying outlet for your kinks. Sorta sounds like you're not sure tho.
| >>817092 you said you're lonely.
Getting treated like a sex toy while lewd and fun in the moment will make you feel shitty in the long run.
My two cents, you have your preferences. I say try to look for someone you really really connect with and you'll enjoy the sex thousand times more passionately. Fuckboys are the worst kind of people you'll ever meet...
| And maybe, just maybe, you get a dopamine hit from the validation these people provide you when you say you wanna get nailed. Take a hard look at yourself and reflect on wether that has any value in the grand scheme of things that are important in your life and are more worthwhile to dedicate time to.
| You sound like fun.
| I love sex.
| >>c84285 I'm just saying if they're lonely, hookups aren't really gonna fill the need for companionship. If you just want sex then sure, by all means go for it. I'm not one to judge what consenting adults do.
| I love sex.
| I guess I was just venting if anything. I've been really frustrated lately, especially sexually. I've had a pretty bad dry spell, and I don't want to make and friends that aren't interested in me uncomfortable.
| (this is OP btw)
| Hey OP, where are you? I wanna give you a hug and help you fall in love with your best friend.
| lol I got high and then * r e a l l y * horny. then I jacked off. good time
| >>819045 Honestly this. Your reputation can't be affectd if you only show your wild side to strangers. Tbf tho, I've been drinking too on this fine New Year's Eve. So maybe I'm not thinking straight. Even so... I'm game to help. Fuck I'm gonna log off. Gonna say some dumb(er) shit
| OP here, I'll confirm I'm on the discord, but too embarrassed to say who I am on here. Thanks g/u/rls, I've felt a little better about it since Christmas Eve
| If any of you are g/u/rls I regularly interact with, you might even know who I am ;3
| sorry, anon <_<
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| I started drinking since I had the day off, and all my pent up emotion and sexual frustration just came out online. I ended up flirting with a handful of online friends, and venting in a discord server about how badly I needed dick.
Normally i'd shrug it off, but one of the people I don't usually talk to as much responded. the tl;dr was that I told him I need to get fucked, and if he didn't live on the other side of the world I'd drop to my knees and suck him off right there.