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Feel empty after a hookup
| Yeah that's weird, You should be full of cum right now
| Are you or à female ?
Also +1 degenerate point for sucking dick in a fucking theater and +1 std for your collection
Ughhhhhhh...... you know, hiv isn't the most transmitted std right? The most transmitted std is chlamydia and it can degenerate into throat cancer
If you end up with something really serious, that's karma
You wouldn't go play drums in a concert without actually learning the instrument right? Well do the same with sex ffs are you a teen or something ?
| Are you gay or a female*
| >>812239
Yeah, it's pretty common to feel empty after sex, (sometimes even when we are still in the arms of our lover) because sex is a vulnerable act.
Some of us have trouble opening up emotionally. But when we’re aroused enough, we can push ourselves to a whole new level of vulnerability. And when that’s over, we can rebound hard.
| There's nothing casual about sex, both parties are dehumanized and usually one of them (usually the female) ends up feeling pretty used. I don't think you can detach humanity from sex like that.
Strive to make love, not just fuck. Make love with someone meaningful to you, a dick or pussy that's attached to a beautiful person that cares about you. My two cents...
| I meant both parties are dehumanized in what people refer to "casual sex", not sex itself btw sry if that got confusing
| >>812307 it's not really that much nonsense (especially with the addendum the first attempt WAS confusing). I don't think it necessarily has to be with someone who is meaningful to you or beautiful but that g/u/rl is right that you need the right mindset(?) to enjoy whatever sex you might be having.
>>42ed5f now THIS is incel nonsense though jesus christ
| I love sex.
| >>812347 ???????? How am I an incel for saying it's wrong to have sex in a fucking theater and warning about stds ????
| Sucking dick in the back of a theater?
Now that's some cool ass shit, good on you g/u/rl.
| And there you have it, the fucking degenerates
Ughhh /u/ could be such a Nice place but noooooo, you gotta act edgy to Spice up your empty ass personnality
No wonder people here dont got any real life friends
| >>813016 yes and there's a difference between sharing your fetishes and straight up promoting deviant behavior
| oh nooooo~ we're deviants~~~ im so sorry >>42ed5f
anyways who wants to ride me bareback in the city center? i wanna get arrested!
| >>aa1a93 saying sex is dehumanising is VERY Incel-like wtf sex is about pleasure for both parties and it's a carnal, natural act needed for procreation. Stop being such a prude.
| Also it's not being a deviant for enjoying casual sex. Just say you're unable to get some and are frustrated over it and hate everyone can get some, incel.
| I think it's ok to not enjoy casual sex; for some people it is about intimacy; hell, I know someone who is asexual, she just wants to cuddle without anything touching her pussy.
| >>813170 It's ok to not enjoy it. It's NOT okay to call others sexual deviants for not enjoying it. There's a difference.
| >>813319 I agree, actually, and I'm pretty sexual myself; I just don't want this thread to devolve into deviant vs incel because I think it's an interesting discussion.
My view on sex has changed pretty radically the last few years, and I'm curious to read people's perspectives, without it becumming a name calling contest.
| Love and sex are two different things. It's fun. We do it coz it's fun. Not sure how it was in the pre-historic era, but with the invention of condoms, sex became a leisurely activity. The individual purpose of having a child has been set aside. All that's left is the pursuit of pleasure and fun.
| Just rubbing your crotches together feels so good. It's calorie, cholesterol, purine and sugar-free.
It basically cost nothing, is legal, and has no side-effets. Is there any reason not to do it?
| >>813320 as a very sexual guy myself, i find it rly annoying to see people judging me for having casual sex but fair enough, won't mention it again.
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| I hooked up with a guy, made out with him and sucked his dick in the back of the movie theater and in the car after. It was fun but now i feel empty? Is this normal? It's my first hookup but I've already lost my virginity to a friend a while ago.