is it normal to get a boner when talking about serious love stuff?
Post number #791315, ID: 10b457
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okay, so to give context, my girlfriend and I are talking about getting married and starting a family. Just romantic talk, not like it's a solid concrete plan, but we do plan it to happen. and everytime that we talk about it, about having kids and about living in the same house that we bought, about going grocery shopping together, I get a boner.
My girl and I haven't been that long though. Just a little bit over a year and a half, going two. So maybe it's just me being a kid.
Post number #791316, ID: 10b457
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Is it normal though? Or am I weird?
Post number #791322, ID: 957854
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love? ew, gross.
Post number #791347, ID: cedb7a
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Yeah, I'm with >>957854 on this one. Absolutely disgusting, OP.
Post number #791348, ID: b6454c
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Imagine being in love. Couldn't be me!
Post number #791364, ID: 2b6255
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Disgusting!
Post number #791369, ID: ca4868
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Pretty cringe of op tbh.
Post number #791370, ID: ca4868
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We are just salty about op getting laid and being pure.
Post number #791373, ID: b6454c
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>>791370 I'm going to salt you. uwu
Post number #791412, ID: 63c313
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I think 2 years is too soon for that sort of talk, wait at least 5 years.
Post number #791419, ID: 9323ff
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>>791412 I agree with this strange g/u/rl
Post number #791432, ID: 20e54f
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can you show us your boner?
Post number #791433, ID: 20e54f
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for diagnosis puroposes
Post number #791438, ID: bc380b
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>>791412 Wait at least 50 years. You're never too careful.
Post number #791444, ID: cf273a
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You get a boner whenever you talk about kids? I dunno about that, chief
Post number #791447, ID: 675254
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I bet youre a virgin
Post number #791474, ID: 1769f5
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I get boner all the time. I don't know if it's normal or not, but if I feel strong emotion I get boner, despite not feeling any horny. I'm borderline asexual in the way that I don't really care much about sexual stuff at all, but I just get boner from almost any strong emotion, even sad, and also at random, despite being all adult and stuff. Is weird stuff.
Post number #791477, ID: 57d68d
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lmao everyone on this thread is just jealous of you op, you're fine
Post number #791480, ID: d10a1f
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Ok, here's an actual answer:
Boners in general are an ok thing. They can happen because of pretty much anything, from a random thoughts about something not related to sex in the slightest to a naked women in front of you. It happens because hormones are working unpredictably and this reaction is not an indicator of being horny.
I would say that your body reacts like that because the thought of having babies is closely tied to having sex, but I got no way of proving it.
Post number #791509, ID: 46e224
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OP here >>791412 we sort of talk about it, just imagining things in our future. I'm happy with her, and I really feel like she is the one for me. Though we'll be serious about this stuff, someday soon, we're just thinking what future would be like when we start a family.
>>791480 Okay, that makes sense. But even the thought of doing responsible adult things for her and our (would be) family gives me a stiffy. True, not in a very sexual way, all the time. Thanks for this answer. <:
Post number #791532, ID: 8ec5dc
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just dont do it.that means ur not ready.wait at least 50 years for sure
Post number #791542, ID: b6454c
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Just break up with your GF immediately to be honest Oh, and send me her phone number so I can make sure she understand you want nothing to do with her anymore
Post number #791595, ID: 4b7bd0
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>>46e224 I have heard of emotional boners before so I'd say yes you're normal don't worry
Post number #791596, ID: 4b7bd0
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And maybe that's a term you'd like to look up for reassurance
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| okay, so to give context, my girlfriend and I are talking about getting married and starting a family. Just romantic talk, not like it's a solid concrete plan, but we do plan it to happen.
and everytime that we talk about it, about having kids and about living in the same house that we bought, about going grocery shopping together, I get a boner.
My girl and I haven't been that long though. Just a little bit over a year and a half, going two. So maybe it's just me being a kid.