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My insecurities
| Different kinds can have their own appeal. Some d/u/des have preferences for sure and they won't be interested unless they get to know you. Personally I don't mind, but I like a big personality to compensate if chest smol.
For most I'd say aslong as you can be a flirt and put a basic amount of effort into apperances your fine. Dingus will usually find a way, even if it likes big booty bitches.
| For the first one i don't care and haven't run into a man saying they do, though i haven't ever actually talked about it
For the second, for me if attraction is affected by boob size it's more whether it's 'in balance' with the rest of them, like a very skinny person with huge breasts may not seem as hot. But it's not a huge factor for me, i could still be really into someone like that based on other things. I think some men have stronger/more specific turn ons but many don't
| >>766168 this is very helpful!! Thank you!! I do make an effort. I take care of myself pretty well but these are just the things in your body that you can't really control that's why i'm so insecure about it.
So it still all boils down to attraction and personality, eh? It's strange to think about. I thought it was all about physical
| If you aren't able to hang out without feeling you're talking to a wet towel, or find that you have nothing in common, it can really dampen it
| It's usually a bit of both. Like big booba + dom personality = lady dimitrescu.
And then the world wants to be stepped on because that type is popular. But realistically that devide is along the lines of
Bone zone vs relationship.
| >>766171
I personally agree with this g/u/rl about the balance thing, but I honestly have a preference toward smaller chests
| Some of the appeal is that they look "cute"
They're easy to hide under clothes until she wants to show them (i don't mean getting flashed more like.. Tight clothes) It's like gap moe but.. The body. The girl doesn't have to wear a bra if they want to which is pretty awesome
Easy to play with, to cup /w your hands, suck + lick etc
| I think stuff like camisoles look great on this kind of girl
You see the collar bone, a bit of skin and wonder what you could see down there
It's the suggestion
| I love sex
| >>766161 personally, i don't mind most of the physical characteristics of someone (that means i like practically anything, exceptions being obesity), generally I'm more interested in the overall look, style and personality of a g/u/rl, hell even personality alone can be enough for me to choose a smol chest any color punani gurl (what is even that ;~;) over a big breast with pink punani gurl
| I love sex.
| I love hugs.
| Since I'm pan I'm not sure if my opinion really means much, but, I don't mind at all. I find that everything has a different charm. When it comes to small chest I think it's really cute, but I know that some people prefer bigger. Every male friend I have says that they prefer smaller over bigger though, so, maybe it depends on where you live or something.
When it comes to punpun colour I don't think anyone cares, at all. I've never really given it any thought until now.
| >>766310 that's very interesting! It could be a culture thing. For sure, the guys where i'm in are very outspoken that they prefer a bigger chest. I get made fun of for my small breat in my friend group too so it really got me insecure T-T
| >>766190 wow that's actually pretty neato! I usually wear off shouldered tops or halter tops because i have nice shoulders. It's new to see guys actually having a preference for us smallchested folk
| >>766317
Yeah! But, it might also not be. Because, there are people here who say they like big boobs and stuff, but some of those are the same people who have told me one on one in more serious and open conversation that they prefer small boobie. So it could also be a thing where people say it because they think that's the normal thing, even if they like the little boobies more.
Also, that's not very nice of them. They should just accept that their friend's a little cutie.
| The size is not the most important.
The most important is the girl being cute while being embarrassed and blushing when showing them.
| There's probably the same amount that prefer big and that prefer small.
Guys that prefer big will brag about it. But not the ones that prefer small.
Also we like to joke on flast chest, some clearly because they prefer big, but it's more like a kind of classic joke to tease the girl.
| >>766320 so they're closeted with liking small chest? Haha how silly. Also thank you. This is reassuring
| >>766342
Mhm! Some of them are. I remember every time that kinda stuff came up in a group they'd always say they like the big boobies and stuff. But, the last few times we've talked genuinely about it they've been like "Yeah, nah, I honestly like the smaller boobies."
It was really funny. It's like they were coming out about it. So silly.
| https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xX050NcDNAU
| Thank u g/u/rls! This really helped me with my confidence!! I hope you're all well ❤️
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| Hello, g/u/rls of /d/!
I'm an asian g/u/rl with a small chest. My punani isn't pink, of course, because i'm a PoC and they had ALWAYS been my biggest insecurities.
I would like to ask, do men really mind the color of the punani and breast size or do you you all just get turned on just the same? What are your thoughts about it? I'd really appreciate serious answers! Thank you!!