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Been a year since my ex left me for my cousin
| Stop masturbating to her nudes, for starters.
| So why did she leave you for your cousin?
| Stop looking at the old page of your life and look at good things you learned and move forward and try avoid the sames mistakes.
| It's not worth keeping those nudes as some sort of memento from your ex; can't shake off the feeling the "goodbye" was more of a "Take these nudes, and don't think about hitting me up ever again."
| did she send them out of pity
| Now this is a juicy thread
| Bro. Fuck of. For real.
Delete the nudes. Don't pretend like she gives a shit about you or genuinely had good intentions sending those nudes, and find new shit to focus on.
Is that easy to do? No. But if you don't you're choosing to be stuck in the past. So miss me with the "I'm doomed to be like this forever" shit, because that's a choice.
Getting hurt isn't a choice, and shit like that's always gonna hurt. But when you clearly don't even attempt to move on, it's kinda on you.
| >>719645
Essentially, yeah. "Take some nudes and fuck off", not caring about the effect that will have on you and not giving a shit about you in general.
| A good bye present as a nudes is pretty fucked
| At least OP didn't use the nudes as revenge porn, but nonetheless it's a burden keeping something like that she gave to you
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| It's been a year since my ex girlfriend left me for my cousin. It still hurts and I only make my pain worse by masturbating to her old nudes, idk what to do I feel like I'm doomed to be like this forever.