Post number #1042706, ID: 3d1585
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How the hell in this dystopian future we call a society, do I get a girlfriend.
I don't trust dating apps, I do not trust online dating, am I just destined to be forever alone?
Post number #1042707, ID: 3d1585
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OP is also almost 30 now, if that matters.
Post number #1042711, ID: e5dfb7
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here to tell u it gets worse (23 btw) it doesnt ever seem serious or actually loving..everywhere seems just transactional or one sided
Post number #1042719, ID: c6a8c9
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My dad annoyed my mom in grad school but I dunno. My aunt and uncle are awesome but I don’t know how they met. My cousin met a boy but I don’t know how. My other cousin used an app and knew her wife was safe because she likes Star Wars? I’d be scared but she’s a really good wife actually. My best friend met a boy doing a class project and I guess they met up for food and talked but he’s kinda :/
I think the key is: understand your life goals, find others living towards them
Post number #1042720, ID: c6a8c9
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Do you have any friends OP? I want those too and you’re supposed to marry your friends. It would be interesting if there was a nice one you didn’t notice, or if you’re good at getting those and can pay me back for my love knowledge with friends ideas!!
Post number #1042721, ID: b4ad66
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try dating apps and online dating
Post number #1042799, ID: 3d1585
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>>1042721 someone didn't read the post
Post number #1042800, ID: 3d1585
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>>1042720 OP here, I am the only LGBT person in my irl friend group, which is small because where I live is full of people triple my age.
I'm the only one attempting to find romance, and I am not interested in the one friend who is single with me.
I used to have a lot of female friends, one I attempted to date, didn't work out, the others are now married, soooo.
Then I was forced to move and now the media age is retirement.
Post number #1042842, ID: c6a8c9
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I wonder if you could like ask your friends for contacts or make a dating app profile which filters people fairly hard and use the app only for 30 minutes every weekend just to keep it active
Sigh I wonder if I should do such things.
Post number #1042891, ID: 3d1585
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>>1042842 I'm willing to bet you $20 that both of my buds will look at me like I have two heads if I ask them this.
Post number #1042911, ID: 2a9dfc
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kinda sounds like you're not around the right people OP. i have the same issue, i'm trying to meet more queer people.
Post number #1042912, ID: c6a8c9
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>>1042891 Oh mine would too. Dating seems like such a taboo thing. It probably doesn’t help being lgbt but even without that. But it must be worth asking.
I still think making the app and expanding your social circle are also good.
Post number #1042913, ID: c6a8c9
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>>1042911 Yeah that too - you may have drifted away from your friends in love goals and they can still be distant friends but you need to bring new people in who WOULD help you.
Oh maybe you should ask them how they found their spouses though?
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| How the hell in this dystopian future we call a society, do I get a girlfriend.
I don't trust dating apps, I do not trust online dating, am I just destined to be forever alone?